worried?

[Suzi]

Do you worry about people? Your friends and your family,  when any of them are ill, or down or in some way " not themselves"? We all do it. But, have you ever stopped to think about what that worry is doing to the person on the receiving end? Worry is a full on negatively charged emotion/energy. I have been fully aware of the vibes/emotions/energy that people send my way for quite a while now, and i also know who sends what. Just recently, i was in a crisis situation, and, it was a very difficult time for me emotionally. That is when i became  aware of how many people were worried about me. And you know what? It made the struggle so much worse. Not only was i dealing with the actual issue, but, then all of a sudden, i was bombarded with all this negative energy from the people who CARED! Since that happened, i have now spoken with all involved, and i have asked them, can they please, next time they feel worried about me for some reason, remember the effect that it has on my end, and instead of "worrying" affirm to themselves that i am doing great, and they know it, or anything positive that they can think of. Anyone reading this knows about the power of focussing your energy, it's the same principle used when we send loving thoughts. There's probably a lot of you here that have been someone's worry victim without you or them realising it. So, next time you find yourself worrying about someone, think about what kind of energy you are sending their way, and ask yourself, is this helpful?

[richard]

Dearest Angel Suzi;
You are, as usual, right on about the situation and what i have been doing and need to improve.  My daughters have been going through some stuff and focussing on the negative and worrying about it is a very negative way to approach the situation.  And, not only am i sending negative energy to them, i am in negative energy of the worry.  So everyone loses.  So, here is to your success at clearing out another issue and letting your love and light shine brightly.

richard
 

[dorthe]

Suzi, thank you so much for posting this message. I totally agree with you 


In my perspective - a worry is a form of fear, so when you think you are worring about someone, it is actually your own fear you are acting out and projecting to the person you worry about. This can create a difficult situation for the person in the recieving end of the worry, since they themselves most likely are worried and this increases the fear energy within that person, making it harder to cope with the situation or emotion.

To care and support a person, has in my mind, nothing to do with worring about the other person

Love Dorthe