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While You Were Sleeping

Anyone remember the Sandra Bullock movie "While You Were sleeping"? Oldie, but goodie. She saves the life of a man from getting hit by a train and manages to get involved with his family because of her heroic actions. But while this man is in a coma in the hospital everyone seems to think she is his fiance. From that point on the story goes forward and while he is "sleeping" her life begins. She doesn't see all what is front of her because she is focused on the man she saved in the movie whom she always had a crush on but he never noticed her.

So, what happens to us when we are so intent and focused on someone who barely notices us or pulls away from us? Do we ever stop to see that perhaps there is someone else waiting in the wings or maybe even come to us at another time? Because we are so wrapped up with the present person we tend not to look what is in sight or even what the future may bring.

My Grandfather used to tell me; "You before him, you will survive after him". Ah but the heartache. How that distorts the positive thoughts and the mere idea of looking to the future at the possibility of opening ourselves up again for more hurt or a good relationship. Which will it be? Who wants to go through that again? None of us.

Just like the movie, while we were sleeping, not hoping or perhaps not noticing things do have a way of working themselves out. We do recover in time; we do find new love that gives new hope to an old heart. Try to only take small naps so you don't miss the grand event. Want to know who and when? Just ask me. I look forward to reading for you.

Michelle :)

Bringing about peace..

 

Every day whether I want to or not, I hear of an earth change or something horrible happening to someone or something. It seems as if people have lost their minds. Maybe true. It's rather difficult to raise your vibration have faith and be positive when you hear of such things. It is undeniable we are living in very trying times. The State of the Union is upside down. I try to stay far away from any news. It always affects me. I don't want to be oblivious or unprepared.
 
I knew of the earth changes coming years ago. Things and people are different since I was a child. Being a child was easy, those were the days.
 
Can we fix the budget? Can we stop the changes our planet is making? Can we save the earth, our children and animals? I believe our planet is going through some major changes in order to bring about a new world. It is scary, confusing and though predicted still unpredictable. However, if we raise our vibration and start making changes NOW we can all get through these times a lot easier.  The world needs healing. People need healing. There is too much hatred, abuse and violence. Nations should not be rising against each other.The "yes" to fixing things comes to me as thoughts and actions.  Here are some things we as a world can do:
 
Forgive. Yes, forgive every person who did anything to you that was wrong. Let it go. (I know this is easier said than done) Try.
 
Plant something. We are killing off our trees and vegetation. It's always a good thing to make oxygen and breathe.
 
Become a role model to a child or young adult.
 
Get involved. Volunteer even if it's 15 minutes a week.
 
Truly practice random acts of kindness. (Stop perseverating on what you don't have, think of what you do have) I may not have designer clothes or a home that is decorated with the finer things money can buy but I have clean clothes with a roof over my head. I am simple, not complex. I hope to always have this simple roof over my head and in faith, I will.
 
Smile at someone. They might think you're nuts but who cares. Positive helps.
 
Donate a quarter to a local charity. Who cares how much, it all adds up. Imagine if everyone donated 1.00 to a food cause? We could possibly end world hunger.
 
Save an animal. If possible you can sponsor, adopt or donate time.
 
Replace a negative thought or feeling with a positive one. Keep on doing that.
 
Honor the earth, clean up litter. Bless the ground you walk on and the sky you breathe under. Recycle, please.
 
Pray! Pray for others, the earth, your family, friends and all you know and have never met. Prayer is not about religion. I care that you pray. I encourage you to walk in faith and not in fear. Fear will hoard all the faith anyone has. Living in fear is crippling. Fear is negative and evil. It can and often does control. I am sorry to say but I believe the powers that be like to instill fear so they can keep us under thumb. As long as you continue to remain attached by virtue of clinging, desire and ego as long you continue to live in fear you will see that change or its potential as a bad thing. As soon as you stop, it becomes just a thing maybe even a no-thing.
 
Educate yourself. Don't take the news as the word of God. Take the word of God as the news.
 
Share, laugh, hug and love. Love is such a powerful force. It can move mountains, change minds and hearts. Be open minded to new people and ideas. Imagine! Try to be in a consistent state of grace.
 
Granted, this is not so easy to always do. Not impossible. The world needs to be healed so do people. The only way is to start day by day then we can multiply. We raise our vibration high where the planet feels the loving energy. It flows through each one of us carried like a river that eventually will lead out to an entire ocean. That is pretty cool.
 
Tonight I felt a sense of fear and then I did some things I suggested above. I thought of my children and how I love them. How blessed I am because of them. I spoke to a friend; e mailed another because I deeply care for each of them. I worked, prayed and played with the dog. I looked at the moon and thanked God. I asked for world peace and all nations to learn love and those economic issues will be fixed, jobs will be had. I laughed at a silly show and wrote this blog.
 
Let peace reside in your heart and pass it on.

 

What Do Men Really Want?

After taking a poll for several months I have decided to write this blog in regard to what my male clients and friends have expressed to me in what they are looking for in a partner. Interestingly enough it is not what you may automatically assume; "sex."  Women often say that men confuse them and that they are unsure what a man is really looking for. They have tried to please them in the past and it hasn't worked. Modern men seem to be increasingly struggling to find his place in a woman's world. I don't mean that in regards to a profession. I mean it in regards to how men want to connect with a woman and form a bond. Men are not insensitive, rotten *bleep*, as some may say. There are good and bad in both sexes.
 
Men have started to change and are starting to grasp the fact that their role may not be as it once was. "Starting" is the operative word because this does not mean that there aren't vast amounts of the world where men insist on being the breadwinner and women should still remain at home barefoot and pregnant. That may a long time to change for those that hold that opinion. However in our western world that seems to be changing. If a couple gets together and agrees on that concept and role, then certainly that is acceptable as both parties agreed and are happy.

 

So what is a man seeking? (Remember this is from my questioning a group of about 30 men over the last several months or more)

 

  • It may be shocker, ladies, to know that most men are looking for love and a solid relationship. The problem that I was told on several occasions was that many women come across as cold and often aloof. I was told by a client who I will call Jim that his girlfriend was too involved in herself that she did not wish to spend time with him. She professed her love but showed little attention unless she initiated it. Surprisingly he held on until he gave up. She did not cheat, she was just too self involved. He felt each of them should have down or alone time but wanted his time with her as a couple.
  • Men are seeking a woman who is attractive to them. Women may despair that men can be so shallow and that looks could matter so much but be careful. Men aren't necessarily looking for a Victoria's Secret model and many men don't like women who weigh 80lbs. But men do want a woman who takes pride in their appearance. The men I asked really enjoyed the women that took interest in themselves, it showed self esteem. Just like we want our mates to look and smell yummy, men feel the same. No, they don't expect us to be dressed to kill every day. Men are proud of having a girlfriend who looks good and I would never believe any man who says otherwise.
  • Men are looking for a trustworthy girl, someone they can have faith in and someone who will be there for them. Men want to make a home eventually and are looking for a woman who will be willing to share in a home life with him. Women with a sociable lifestyle are attractive because they can be relied upon to keep the social calendar going when it is needed.
  • Men are seeking women who are feminine gentle and kind because deep down the qualities that make a woman a great mother are an attraction in itself. If a man wants children or has them already he will often look for that maternal side. Do not mistake this for "mothering" him. I was told by 75% of those I asked that was a no- no. It was perfectly fine to take care of your guy if he was sick or hurt but always remember your not his Mother, he has one.
  • Men want women with a great sense of humor. Women who came across as uptight or too bothered by too many small details were a turn off. You will sometimes hear mention of a girl who is 'one of the boys'. What this means is that she is able to fit in with their humor and is sociable and fun to be with. Women who just go with the flow in this aspect are attractive to many men. Men want to have a good time and relax when not working. Almost all, who I feel were truthful with me said they really loved the women who were able to do the same, just not turn into a cursing sailor.
  • Men are looking for women who retain their femininity and are caring and kind. "Soft" was a word that was used. "If I wanted to hear a burp or fart, I would go to my buddy's house." It's not as if we all don't do those things but all men asked agreed that was not a turn on. FYI- Girls are not that thrilled when the guys do it either. Women have girlfriends and men have their buddies. You can combine the crowd but most have expressed to me that they really get turned on when their girl acts like a girl and girls like guys can be versatile.
  • Men want someone who is supportive. Many women are quick to criticize men in their behavior, career and can become set about trying to alter them and mold them. This is a mistake. Men and women can be manipulated yes, but they see their partnerships as support systems. The best relationships work both ways in terms of support. Where a woman is not able or willing to give that support and is too quick to criticize then she may lose her man. I as a woman invite constructive criticism but not constant that is non- supportive. If you nag me, I will eventually grow annoyed which always leads to an argument.
  • Men don't like angry women who shout, scream or yell. Naturally, we all do at times but I think you know what I mean. They mostly wanted a woman who can debate, discuss and have good conversations. Communication is key and women want this too. A fiery passionate temperament may have made you interesting and challenging on day one. By the time a year has passed most of these men felt it became overwhelming. (That may be saved for the bedroom)
  • Men love a challenging woman, someone who keeps them on their toes. These 30 or so men openly admitted that they were generally lazy in relationships once they feel they're secure. When a man is challenged, he does something about it. If you want to keep your man interested, keep him challenged. This does not mean to play games. This is what I was told.
  • Men are generally more reserved about sex than women. These men who were asked were really kind of cool and open enough to say that know what they like in bed and tend to stick to it. All had expressed that they did not like when their partners discussed their intimacy with friends or family. They felt rather betrayed when hearing their performance was up for 10 pts or less. A few mentioned that even if they were being complimented, they felt it was private information. They also felt that they really liked when their mate was quiet outside of the bedroom and knew how to act like a lady but as the song goes, when the lights turn down low, that was exciting to them. Most women feel the same.
  • Men want a woman who will commit to them. Men don't want to be alone. These men also expressed that they really enjoyed friendships first. Several had mentioned that upon not searching for a relationship at that time, the friendship meant so much it spun into a romantic relationship that was totally unexpected. Three particular gentlemen polled had spent many years being friends with their women friends who now are wives; she was right under his nose.
Naturally these findings will not apply to all people; there are exceptions to every situation. I found it all interesting yet not so surprising. Men can be lovable people and do have feelings even if at times some may find it hard to express.
 
I hope you have enjoyed reading this as much as I have enjoyed sharing it with you.

 

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