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Swimming in the California ocean has taught me much about life. For one, in the ocean you learn never to turn your back to the direction in which waves are coming from because you might get tossed head-over-heels in a second. Also you want to paddle fast in front of the wave to get a good speed and to catch the wave just at the right moment. When you don’t make an effort to catch a wave, it just passes over you, leaving you behind. I’ve also learned that if you try to go against the current in the ocean, you lose a lot of energy and you could eventually drown from sheer exhaustion. I recently found out that many drownings occur simply because people exhaust themselves swimming against the current rather than swimming with it.
When people say, “Never turn your back to the direction in which waves are coming,” what they are really saying is be attentive to what is happening around you at all times. In life if we are not alert, sometimes we can get tossed around and might even go under. My advice to you in the troubled times that we are living right now on Earth is to make sure you always stay alert, and watch the waves of your life closely to make sure you’ll duck dive in time to avoid an unfortunate event. You can never be too alert in the ocean, and you can never be too alert in life.
To catch a wave in the ocean, you need to work with it. A surfer has to paddle about 15 km per hour to catch a wave in order to ride it. So although surfing might look easy, it really isn’t because the surfer must calculate the right distance and timing before she “pops up” on the board. In life, it’s also important to gage our speed and timing. Windows of opportunity are rare, but if we’re alert and we jump up just in time, we can catch the greatest wave of our lives. Sometimes, though, it’s best to just let an opportunity pass if we haven’t prepared enough for it, or if we haven’t been going at the right speed to catch it.
Lastly, fighting the current in the ocean is a waste of time and energy, and could lead to drowning. One of the first lessons I received in the ocean was to move with the pulse of Mother Ocean, to kick whenever she was kicking toward shore. If you work with a current, you will preserve your energy rather than lose it. Life is like an ocean: it can rage; it can hurl you far out; it can caress you; and it can soothe you. By swimming along and synching your self with the greater force around you, wonders start to occur. It often takes patience before you reach the shore, but stand firm and work with the forces around you, learn their pulse, and always keep your head up because you never know when the next wave will come.

I have been told that the Universe has chosen me for a transformation that will take place at the end of the month. How do I let the Universe know that I am Ready to Accept? This may be my last chance to have an opportunity like this.

Dear R:

Truly we are all poised for transformation. Every one of our days has transformation stamped all over it. When you are aware of a huge life transformation on the horizon, as you are now, just go into a meditative state, or a prayer state, and tell your guides and angels that you are ready. Do this just as you would say it to a human. Then be willing to accept whatever comes along and recognize it as the opportunity for transformation that it is.

May your path be guided by Angels,

Dyan Garris

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 In May I had an astrology reading done which informed me of many changes coming into my life especially my love life.  The astrologer pinpointed when the contact would occur and the circumstances surrounding it. It did happen. We came in contact via e-mail and exchanged three e-mails, upon which I sent him my pictures and another e-mail saying hello to his personal e-mail.  I haven’t heard from him since July 9^th.  

And without being too pushy how can I determine whether or not he is not interested anymore, or maybe he hasn’t received my e-mails?  I have read many astrology reports since then. They say that we are “companions of destiny.”  The astrologer told me that sometimes you have to reach out and grab your destiny and that it would be up to me.

Our initial e-mails were done through a particular website so I don’t know what happened and should I pursue this matter?  The Angel card readings told me that all is moving accordingly and that new love is coming to my life, so what seems to be the obstacle?

With love and light,

Marzena

Dearest Marzena:

You have a beautiful name for a beautiful soul. I agree with the astrologer that we do have to reach out for our destiny. One of the most frequently asked questions any psychic gets asked is “Where is my soul mate?” I just did an interview on my radio program with soul mate expert Marj Bowers, the author of “Soulmates…The Truth.” I think you might be interested in listening to the archive. It sheds new light on the whole soul mate issue. Here is the link: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/voice-of-the-angels-

I also find that when we are attached to outcome, we do block our own path. Blocking ourselves in this way is definitely an obstacle to getting what we want. This is where I think too that there are certain cautions with which one should approach any reading. “Destiny” does get affected by free will. It’s something important to keep in mind.

Energy shifts and changes with free will. Then everything that follows shifts and changes from that as well. It’s the musical dance of the universe. But everything, everything always works to the highest good. So we have to be willing to accept a situation either way it shows up. This allows for energy flow and keeps us out of that attachment that is so fond of blocking our way.

We do have many soul mates here and we have them for very good reasons. These are aspects of the same soul. If one doesn’t work out because of free will choices, then we have opportunity for the same lessons with another aspect of the same soul. If that is confusing, begin to see yourself as a multi-dimensional being with many realities throughout the universe. If that is confusing, just know that we have opportunity to meet many that we have deep and what we think of as ”soul mate” connection with. There is just not necessarily one perfect, ultimate person for us. Everything is a lesson in love, with or without “soul mate.”

With regard to your question about whether or not you should pursue this, I vote for maybe one more email, then go on about your life. If he doesn’t answer, then as they say, he’s just not that into it. Move forward then. I find that people do make time for whatever it is they decide to make priority. You deserve to be priority. Be open to the possibility of love showing up, but in a different face. In this way, you allow it to happen, probably when you aren’t even expecting it. It’s sort of like a nice cosmic gift for lessons learned.

Angel Blessings to you,

Dyan

Could you please give me some spiritual guidance on my problem? I recently discovered I am pregnant. It is the result of a one night incident that should never have happened.

I’m completely devastated and don’t know what to do, I’m obviously no longer with the father, I’m 41years old,..too old to become a mother again, I have children from my marriage…all in their 20s and I don’t think they’re going to be happy with my news either.

I do believe that God doesn’t send a child into this world without a reason but I don’ think I can cope with it either. I did take the “morning after” contraception pill and still got pregnant. I now have the added worry that something will be wrong with the baby because of this.

And I feel so guilty that I really do not want to have this baby, but abortion is not an option for me, I could not do that. I would really appreciate any guidance you could give me, Dyan, Thank you. Love and blessings to you.

Dear Sweet One:

My heart goes out to you in this very challenging situation. The first thing that comes up as I read your letter is that forty-one is not too old to be a mother. Examine where this belief system comes from. Do you really believe that? I do understand that your other children are all grown and perhaps you feel that you don’t have the energy to raise another. But examine instead if you’re just afraid and examine also what you’re truly afraid of.

I’m with you on that God doesn’t send a child here without a reason. You have to ask yourself if you’re willing to find out that reason. It’s ok to say no. We do have free will. I think the bottom line here is that you have to decide whether or not you can accept the baby with unconditional love. That’s the bigger picture for you in this situation. That is what this lesson is all about.

Guilt truly is a useless emotion, as it isn’t forward moving and keeps you stuck right where you are. We make choices and then we live whatever those choices bring. We have the choice then of accepting the results or making ourselves sick with guilt about our decisions.

You can’t go back. You can move forward, however. I just don’t feel the morning after pill did anything to the child, but you can get tests early on now to see. From here, I don’t see anything amiss. It seems like the child just wants to incarnate and you have chosen each other.

But like everything, there has to be an agreement. That agreement constitutes and offer and an acceptance by both parties in order to be in effect. It’s a choice to choose not to raise the child or to raise it.

Again, it’s truly a lesson in unconditional love for yourself and for the child. It’s also a lesson in choices and consequences. If you can’t come to unconditional love, then the clear choice is adoption. When you can come to unconditional love, then I believe you will find each other.

I also have the feeling that if you did not carry the child to term, that somewhere inside yourself you would be even more heart-broken. I have pointed out the bigger picture and lessons here and I hope they help with your decision. I do know that whatever you choose to do, God will bring this to the highest and best for all.

My Love,

Dyan

One day while walking to the post office a small blonde woman walked up to me and said “You’re an Angel.” I looked at her and said “No, I’m not! The woman said again, “You’re an Angel! I just shrugged it off as this woman was a nut!

Another day I heard a voice loud and clear: “You’re not here to collect things.” Two years ago we lost two homes, but things are getting better. Recently I became a Realtor.

I love to help people and inspiration is one of my gifts that I have to spread across the universe. For the past couple of years I’ve meditated and worked on speaking to my inner person. I’m grateful for all of my life lessons. Everything is a lesson. Forgiveness is an important aspect of my life.

If I don’t give my daughter what she wants then she doesn’t have anything to do with me. It hurts. Stuffing these feelings is easier than dealing with it. My husband and daughter don’t like each other.

I’m torn. On one hand I have the desire to make money so that I’m independent and can do what I want, like travel and see things and new people. On the other hand I feel like I’m being punished for not doing something right.

I have a feeling that these thoughts are from the ego. It’s like nothing is happening. Relief and hope are just around the corner…Life is a beautiful experience. Not sure where I wanted to go!

Thank you for listening.

April

Dear April:

There is a lot here in your letter. Let’s try to get to the root of it. We make choices about what we want to learn here before we even incarnate here. The woman in the Post Office was giving you a message about what you came here to do. It’s good that you know that everything is a lesson, because indeed it is. It’s all a lesson in love. And you know that too because you mention forgiveness as an important aspect in your life.

I encourage you to not continue to stuff your feelings down. This is a good lesson is self-love. It’s just not healthy, and this is where we create disease. Feel your feelings whatever they are. Honor them.

Be clear on what is your issue and what is your daughter’s issue. It appears that she’s in entitlement and uses manipulation. Get to the root of why this may be so. Examine the patterns that are underneath these behaviors. Examine your part in them.

Where inside yourself do you feel you have “failed” and why? In this illusion that we live in, it may seem as if there is “success” and “failure.” However, these are illusions of this world. If you always go to the bigger picture, if you always go to “What is this lesson in love really about?” then you keep yourself moving forward.

Money is an exchange. We get pretty funny about it because in this illusion we’ve ascribed great power to it. Really, it’s pieces of paper fueled by our perceptions of power. The energy that you’re describing is the “not good enough energy.” This energy resides in the 2nd chakra. This is the “birthing” area. When we have blockages here, we find it is challenging to make form manifest – birth our creations.

My advice is to familiarize yourself with the chakra system and in so doing you will be able to get to the root. That’s when you’ll see your life come into alignment and balance. And you will find that you’ll be able to create your life in any way you choose.

My book Money and Manifesting is designed to help you with this. My DVD “Doors To The Soul” is a relaxation DVD that is designed to balance your chakras in about 10 minutes. Blessings to you, Darling. I hope you keep in touch. Please come also to our free spiritual forum. You will find a lot of support and guidance there.

I came across your website and your cards really are beautiful. I have been in a dilemma for quite a long time. I performed a three healings not really knowing what I was doing and the results were good. I asked the angels to send me a teacher but no one has arrived. I constantly feel the need to be involved with children to help however I am unqualified. When I look for possible jobs prospects these positions will take me away from where I reside. I guess my concern is how do I really know these thoughts are divine or ego based? I feel they are divinely based but the fear of relocating family and moving away from family does not seem correct. I have been waiting for signs or something to give me a clear direction. Time is passing by. So I guess what I am asking is this where I take a leap of faith and completely trust in myself and spirit that the choices I make will be divinely led.

Dear Finding Truth:

Thank you for the compliment. Teachers come in many forms. Perhaps teachers have arrived, but you did not recognize these opportunities as such. Perhaps divine guidance is speaking to you but you did not recognize it as such. For example, your healings can be “a teacher.”

Truth has an unmistakable frequency and vibration. Think of things you know to be true already and think about the feeling associated with such. When something is true, you just know it. You feel it. This is what will help you discern the difference between and ego based thought or a divine guidance. Ego based thought always includes some kind of attachment to outcome.

Often when we are attached to outcome, we get in our own way as well. Fear is completely immobilizing and fear blocks the way forward. We should always trust completely in ourselves and our choices because there is no wrong way. All paths converge to take us where we need to go. Now is the time to take the leap of faith. Face the fears and trust in yourself and spirit and your choices at all times. Things may not turn out the way we are attached to them showing up, but in every choice is a teacher, a lesson and divine guidance.

Blessings,

Dyan Garris

www.voiceoftheangels.com – Live online psychic readings by real psychics and free angel card readings

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I just blew up my credit cards in a large amount, thousands of dollars for an educational program which turned out to be a real punch in the stomach. When I saw what I had done by being so needy and insecure with myself, I had a numerology report done. That said I had been led astray in some spiritual  practices (I think I followed my negative ego here) and that I would be put in a position to test my faith (where I absolutely have to have faith).  I believe that is why I have put myself in this position. Now I will have to fully trust spirit and listen as well as I can to what I hope is from my guidance and angels, and not dwell on the appearance of financial failure which is where I am…if I am looking at my life situation. So my question is this…in a number of angel readings it says that I am in a holding stage and patience is needed that my prayers have been heard and I will be taken care of not to rush into any rash decisions.  What should I make of this? I need to get some money soon.  I’ll admit going out and applying for just any job is daunting in itself, but if I am to believe that this guidance is right and not to put my faith in the appearances of no job and no money, what should I be doing? Just believing that the angels will let me know the next step? I mean what if I can’t hear what they are trying to communicate? I’d really like to get this down so I could feel I can hear or understand any messages I get are the right ones… Any help will be greatly helpful.

Vicki

Dear Vicki:

Your problem is multi-layered. At the root of the matter is money as self-worth. So you have to get to the root of who taught you the bigger lesson of money as self worth. Then you’ll be able to see why you are “needy and insecure.” It’s really not that you are those things. It’s that your view of money is distorted. Believe it or not, there is no such thing as financial failure. There is definitely the “appearance” and “illusion” of such based on learned perceptions and perspectives. Money is an exchange. It’s what we’ve chosen to exchange with here. It doesn’t define who you are. And yes, we will definitely put ourselves in certain situations to give ourselves opportunities to learn who we are. That’s what happened here.

You’re trying to figure out who you are. You’re trying to learn to trust your gut, your own intuition, your guidance. You’re definitely right about that. You’ve kind of just outsmarted yourself, or did you? You see, we can go on path A or path B, but the lesson is going to be the same. And yours is about learning to trust. It may be helpful to go back and figure out when you first learned not to trust. That will give you some keys to moving forward.

What you should make of angel readings that tell you that you are in a holding stage is to learn to use that time wisely and learn to delve into the bigger picture, because there always is one. You see, it’s not an excuse to wait to be saved. It’s a direction to introspect, to get to the root of the matter. It’s a suggestion not to go and buy another educational program that leaves you again in the situation you’re in now. It’s a direction to examine the patterns in your life that led you to where you are now, and patiently await changes that you make on the inside to reflect in your outer life. It takes us a long time to get where we are. We can’t undo it all in one minute.

I believe that your prayers have been heard. Absolutely. Know that you are being guided, are safe, and protected. Now you have to do something. You have to take action and KNOW that you will be guided in the right direction. That’s where trust and faith come in. Trust that you will pointed in the right direction. But then you have to be WILLING to go there.

My mini-book Fish Tale of Woe – Lost at Sea illustrates a similar predicament. If we can see ourselves reflected, we can get unstuck and move forward.  If you email me your address, I’ll send it to you. I think it will help you understand. There’s another thing about guidance. Sometimes we just see and hear what we want to see and hear. We have to learn how to get out of our own way and see what is true, rather than what we THINK is true or want to believe is true.

All Blessings,

Dyan Garris

www.voiceoftheangels.com – Free angel card readings online and phone psychic readings by real psychics

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I am at a crossroads! I have been on maternity leave for the past 11 months and have to return back to work the end of next month, leaving my precious daughter in the hands of a childcare worker.  I would LOVE to stay at home and raise my child, but we cannot afford for me to do so.  How can I manifest abundance or prosperity to be able to do so. My heart breaks every time I think of leaving her.

Thanks for listening…I would love your advice,

Becky
From Ontario, Canada

Dear Becky:

How well I remember having to do this myself. I thought I was going to die. You know what? Turns out it was good for me and also good for the child. Now, in order to manifest true abundance and prosperity, you need to be in alignment with your life’s purpose and be willing to create from who you are. Contrary to what has been taught, we can’t just poof these things out into a tangible result with just the power of our mind. Think about what’s in the way of you creating your life the way you want it. Think about what’s in your way of creating a situation where you either work from home, you take your child with you to work, or you employ someone to come into your home and caretake the child, perhaps. There are many options, but you first have to get to what’s in the way of that. Aligning with your life’s purpose and creating your life from the root is not complicated, but it is definitely a process. You may find reading Money and Manifesting helpful.

My Blessings to you,

Dyan Garris

www.voiceoftheangels.com – Free angel card readings online and phone psychic readings by real psychics

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