Dear Dyan:
I have been told that the Universe has chosen me for a transformation that will take place at the end of the month. How do I let the Universe know that I am Ready to Accept? This may be my last chance to have an opportunity like this.
Dear R:
Truly we are all poised for transformation. Every one of our days has transformation stamped all over it. When you are aware of a huge life transformation on the horizon, as you are now, just go into a meditative state, or a prayer state, and tell your guides and angels that you are ready. Do this just as you would say it to a human. Then be willing to accept whatever comes along and recognize it as the opportunity for transformation that it is.
May your path be guided by Angels,
Dyan Garris
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Dear Dyan:
In May I had an astrology reading done which informed me of many changes coming into my life especially my love life. The astrologer pinpointed when the contact would occur and the circumstances surrounding it. It did happen. We came in contact via e-mail and exchanged three e-mails, upon which I sent him my pictures and another e-mail saying hello to his personal e-mail. I haven’t heard from him since July 9th.
And without being too pushy how can I determine whether or not he is not interested anymore, or maybe he hasn’t received my e-mails? I have read many astrology reports since then. They say that we are “companions of destiny.” The astrologer told me that sometimes you have to reach out and grab your destiny and that it would be up to me.
Our initial e-mails were done through a particular website so I don’t know what happened and should I pursue this matter? The Angel card readings told me that all is moving accordingly and that new love is coming to my life, so what seems to be the obstacle?
With love and light,
Marzena
Dearest Marzena:
You have a beautiful name for a beautiful soul. I agree with the astrologer that we do have to reach out for our destiny. One of the most frequently asked questions any psychic gets asked is “Where is my soul mate?” I just did an interview on my radio program with soul mate expert Marj Bowers, the author of “Soulmates…The Truth.” I think you might be interested in listening to the archive. It sheds new light on the whole soul mate issue. Here is the link: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/voice-of-the-angels-
I also find that when we are attached to outcome, we do block our own path. Blocking ourselves in this way is definitely an obstacle to getting what we want. This is where I think too that there are certain cautions with which one should approach any reading. “Destiny” does get affected by free will. It’s something important to keep in mind.
Energy shifts and changes with free will. Then everything that follows shifts and changes from that as well. It’s the musical dance of the universe. But everything, everything always works to the highest good. So we have to be willing to accept a situation either way it shows up. This allows for energy flow and keeps us out of that attachment that is so fond of blocking our way.
We do have many soul mates here and we have them for very good reasons. These are aspects of the same soul. If one doesn’t work out because of free will choices, then we have opportunity for the same lessons with another aspect of the same soul. If that is confusing, begin to see yourself as a multi-dimensional being with many realities throughout the universe. If that is confusing, just know that we have opportunity to meet many that we have deep and what we think of as ”soul mate” connection with. There is just not necessarily one perfect, ultimate person for us. Everything is a lesson in love, with or without “soul mate.”
With regard to your question about whether or not you should pursue this, I vote for maybe one more email, then go on about your life. If he doesn’t answer, then as they say, he’s just not that into it. Move forward then. I find that people do make time for whatever it is they decide to make priority. You deserve to be priority. Be open to the possibility of love showing up, but in a different face. In this way, you allow it to happen, probably when you aren’t even expecting it. It’s sort of like a nice cosmic gift for lessons learned.
Angel Blessings to you,
Dyan
Hi Dyan:
Could you please give me some spiritual guidance on my problem? I recently discovered I am pregnant. It is the result of a one night incident that should never have happened.
I’m completely devastated and don’t know what to do, I’m obviously no longer with the father, I’m 41years old,..too old to become a mother again, I have children from my marriage…all in their 20s and I don’t think they’re going to be happy with my news either.
I do believe that God doesn’t send a child into this world without a reason but I don’ think I can cope with it either. I did take the “morning after” contraception pill and still got pregnant. I now have the added worry that something will be wrong with the baby because of this.
And I feel so guilty that I really do not want to have this baby, but abortion is not an option for me, I could not do that. I would really appreciate any guidance you could give me, Dyan, Thank you. Love and blessings to you.
Dear Sweet One:
My heart goes out to you in this very challenging situation. The first thing that comes up as I read your letter is that forty-one is not too old to be a mother. Examine where this belief system comes from. Do you really believe that? I do understand that your other children are all grown and perhaps you feel that you don’t have the energy to raise another. But examine instead if you’re just afraid and examine also what you’re truly afraid of.
I’m with you on that God doesn’t send a child here without a reason. You have to ask yourself if you’re willing to find out that reason. It’s ok to say no. We do have free will. I think the bottom line here is that you have to decide whether or not you can accept the baby with unconditional love. That’s the bigger picture for you in this situation. That is what this lesson is all about.
Guilt truly is a useless emotion, as it isn’t forward moving and keeps you stuck right where you are. We make choices and then we live whatever those choices bring. We have the choice then of accepting the results or making ourselves sick with guilt about our decisions.
You can’t go back. You can move forward, however. I just don’t feel the morning after pill did anything to the child, but you can get tests early on now to see. From here, I don’t see anything amiss. It seems like the child just wants to incarnate and you have chosen each other.
But like everything, there has to be an agreement. That agreement constitutes and offer and an acceptance by both parties in order to be in effect. It’s a choice to choose not to raise the child or to raise it.
Again, it’s truly a lesson in unconditional love for yourself and for the child. It’s also a lesson in choices and consequences. If you can’t come to unconditional love, then the clear choice is adoption. When you can come to unconditional love, then I believe you will find each other.
I also have the feeling that if you did not carry the child to term, that somewhere inside yourself you would be even more heart-broken. I have pointed out the bigger picture and lessons here and I hope they help with your decision. I do know that whatever you choose to do, God will bring this to the highest and best for all.
My Love,
Dyan
Dear Dyan:
One day while walking to the post office a small blonde woman walked up to me and said “You’re an Angel.” I looked at her and said “No, I’m not! The woman said again, “You’re an Angel! I just shrugged it off as this woman was a nut!
Another day I heard a voice loud and clear: “You’re not here to collect things.” Two years ago we lost two homes, but things are getting better. Recently I became a Realtor.
I love to help people and inspiration is one of my gifts that I have to spread across the universe. For the past couple of years I’ve meditated and worked on speaking to my inner person. I’m grateful for all of my life lessons. Everything is a lesson. Forgiveness is an important aspect of my life.
If I don’t give my daughter what she wants then she doesn’t have anything to do with me. It hurts. Stuffing these feelings is easier than dealing with it. My husband and daughter don’t like each other.
I’m torn. On one hand I have the desire to make money so that I’m independent and can do what I want, like travel and see things and new people. On the other hand I feel like I’m being punished for not doing something right.
I have a feeling that these thoughts are from the ego. It’s like nothing is happening. Relief and hope are just around the corner…Life is a beautiful experience. Not sure where I wanted to go!
Thank you for listening.
April
Dear April:
There is a lot here in your letter. Let’s try to get to the root of it. We make choices about what we want to learn here before we even incarnate here. The woman in the Post Office was giving you a message about what you came here to do. It’s good that you know that everything is a lesson, because indeed it is. It’s all a lesson in love. And you know that too because you mention forgiveness as an important aspect in your life.
I encourage you to not continue to stuff your feelings down. This is a good lesson is self-love. It’s just not healthy, and this is where we create disease. Feel your feelings whatever they are. Honor them.
Be clear on what is your issue and what is your daughter’s issue. It appears that she’s in entitlement and uses manipulation. Get to the root of why this may be so. Examine the patterns that are underneath these behaviors. Examine your part in them.
Where inside yourself do you feel you have “failed” and why? In this illusion that we live in, it may seem as if there is “success” and “failure.” However, these are illusions of this world. If you always go to the bigger picture, if you always go to “What is this lesson in love really about?” then you keep yourself moving forward.
Money is an exchange. We get pretty funny about it because in this illusion we’ve ascribed great power to it. Really, it’s pieces of paper fueled by our perceptions of power. The energy that you’re describing is the “not good enough energy.” This energy resides in the 2nd chakra. This is the “birthing” area. When we have blockages here, we find it is challenging to make form manifest – birth our creations.
My advice is to familiarize yourself with the chakra system and in so doing you will be able to get to the root. That’s when you’ll see your life come into alignment and balance. And you will find that you’ll be able to create your life in any way you choose.
My book Money and Manifesting is designed to help you with this. My DVD “Doors To The Soul” is a relaxation DVD that is designed to balance your chakras in about 10 minutes. Blessings to you, Darling. I hope you keep in touch. Please come also to our free spiritual forum. You will find a lot of support and guidance there.