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Free Spiritual Advice by Vickie

 

PLEASE NOTE: This is NOT a FREE PSYCHIC READING.  It is not a psychic reading. Vickie is an advice columnist. Please do not write requesting a psychic reading.  Ask  Vickie something similar to what you would ask Dear Abby, for example.  For readings visit our our free angel card readings and also our live online psychic readings by phone.  $5.00 free to new accounts. 

Vickie Barringer is an experienced relationship specialist who focuses on using spiritual principles to assist people in all areas. Her weekly column can be found right here on Voice of The Angels.com 

Once a week she will be answering a client's question with a combination of good solid advice, tools for success, and heartfelt, healthy information. You can email Vickie for free advice (not a psychic reading) at Vickie@voiceoftheangels.com.

She will choose one email weekly and respond. here Your name, and personal information will be kept confidential. Vickie resides in northern California with her husband of 26 years. She has 3 adult children and 2 grandchildren.

Her studies include: A Course in Miracles, Abraham Hicks, The Five Elements and Relationships Are For Real. She has been traveling locally and abroad doing speaking engagements teaching people how to make the most of their relationships and themselves.


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Note From Vickie:

With so much going on in our daily lives we have a tendency to forget the woes of others and of our world. The less fortunate, the needy, children and animals. Our planet is so beautiful yet we as a "people" often disregard what has been given to us to cherish and honor. So, it is with a clear heart filled with love that I ask all who read this to sit for a moment and pray for world peace. Let us lift our hearts together as one and ask that Governments come together for the greater good of the people and our planet. That all creatures are respected, honored and loved. Let our main goal be love. Let peace reside, let the angels guide. World Peace- We are one.

Vickie
 
Dear Vickie:
Hi Vickie, I am really interested to discover who my Guardian Angel is.Can you please suggest how I might go about that ? Many thanks in anticipation.My name is Ralph , male age 64. Kind regards,Ralph

Ralph,

What a great question! There are many ways in my opinion that can help you. Meditate and ask to be shown your Angels, pray also. Perhaps buying a really nice angel deck of cards is also a good way to get to know everyone's name. When you ask to be shown, ask for names and what the purpose is for them being by you. Angels are always there to guide. Let us know how you do. This is so wonderful.

Much Love, Vickie
 
Dear Vickie,
 
Good morning and greetings from northern CA! As for my question, I have been with a wonderful man for the last three years.  Although we have been happy together, I question the direction and future of our relationship.  There is an age difference between us (I am 8 years older) and I’m concerned my ability to have children will become an issue (due to my age.)  He says that he is not sure if he even wants children, and there is a potential genetic disorder that runs in his family that would add additional complications to conceiving a healthy child, but I don’t believe that.  He might not want them right now because of where he is in his life, but I think he will eventually want them.  I would like to know what our angels/spirit guides have in store for us and our future together. Thank you very much for sharing your gift.  I hope to hear from you soon. Take care and blessings to you, --- Kristen

Dear Kristen,

Thank you for your question.  Good afternoon to you. I wish to explain that I am not a professional intuitive. As far as your relationship with this man and your concern about him possibly wanting children -- One thing to take note of is to "hear" what someone is telling you. If he is telling you that he is not desiring children try not to project what he may want in the future --that would be left best as a "psychic" question. From my perspective and experience when you are hearing him say; "not now," or "no,"  believe him. We often try to hope we can change someones perspective or desires. Having children with someone is a permanent attachment, but not necessary to have a loving life long bond. Seeing you both care for each other, go with that. Don't worry so much about the difference in age. (You're not expressing to me that he has an issue with this).  The best relationship advice I can give you is to enjoy each day and moment. Life is too short and it sounds like you are experiencing a fantastic relationship. with a loving man. Embrace that! Don't worry about the "eventually." -- Wishing you happiness,
Vickie


Dear Vickie:

Hello my name is Wendy, I am an only child and basically raised myself. I have been married almost 20 years have two children. i know deep inside, I am a good person, nice, respectful, help others and try to be the best mother and wife i can. I am cold at times, i keep to myself, and very private, almost secretive. I have always had dreams at night that are often very vivid, and often times come true throughout my life. Few examples of this - seeing my car overheat, someone passing away, and car accidents. I have never had the urge to date anyone else,I love my husband very much and enjoy my family life. Last year, I worked with a male, who also is very similar to me and my situation. When he was young, he used to have dreams, he has been married the same amount of time and he seems to be helpful, caring and kind.   We somewhat "connected" and we seemed to like each other a little more than friends. In fact, I think I actually fell in love with this person. We never crossed the line, in fact, we stopped communicating as much as we once had. After a few months,I began to dream of him and I being together. Having a future together, I would be with his kids, he was with my kids. I even had dreams of his wife telling me that she wanted to date others. Most of my dreams of him came true. I couldn't understand why I would dream this person so much and why I could see his life. This entire experience caused a big disturbance in my marriage, my family life and I started to see things in a totally different way. (A spiritual awakening maybe?) This person did something really bad and his life has changed and will never be the same. But why do i still dream of him? why did I dream of him? Why did they come true? I am continuing with my readings and searching for meaning and accepting change as it comes my way. I'm excited about my future but scared that i won't be able to make a move in a new direction. Please, any insight is grealty appreciated. – Wendy

Wendy,

It sounds as if you may have some gifts of prophecy which I would encourage you to jot down in a journal, seek classes, or people that are using spiritual principles in order to enhance lives, such as those who are here at Voice of the Angels. That is if this is something you may wish to explore. As far as this gentlemen and your dreams of him, I can express to you that dreams can be many things. Some are warning, prophetic in ways. In technical terms when we dream we are playing out what is in our subconscious mind. Customarily, we are often putting away our feelings in the back of our brain and when we dream they are able to play out.  Sigmund Freud’s theory of dreams suggested that dreams were a representation of unconscious desires, thoughts and motivations. What was your motivation with this man? What were you desiring from him? What were you desiring for yourself? That is really the heart of the matter.

I also hear in your e mail: “ I am a good person.” Why must you feel that you have to explain your personality? Of course you are wonderful!  What are you lacking in your marriage that would prompt you to feel emotion for another man?  These are questions that are pivotal for growth in my professional opinion. Your dreams are a growing process.

You have a healthy attitude. A bright future. Start to journal and making a list of goals that “YOU” wish to accomplish.  What would you like to do six months from now? How do you and your spouse relate to each other? Do you have a date night, things in common?  After doing some self examination you may find your dreams will be going in a different direction; away from this man who alternatively put himself in an uncompromising situation. My wish is that this response has helped you to dig deeper. Keep us updated!

Sweet Dreams,

Vickie