Marzena – Reaching Out For My Soulmate
Dear Dyan:
In May I had an astrology reading done which informed me of many changes coming into my life especially my love life. The astrologer pinpointed when the contact would occur and the circumstances surrounding it. It did happen. We came in contact via e-mail and exchanged three e-mails, upon which I sent him my pictures and another e-mail saying hello to his personal e-mail. I haven’t heard from him since July 9th.
And without being too pushy how can I determine whether or not he is not interested anymore, or maybe he hasn’t received my e-mails? I have read many astrology reports since then. They say that we are “companions of destiny.” The astrologer told me that sometimes you have to reach out and grab your destiny and that it would be up to me.
Our initial e-mails were done through a particular website so I don’t know what happened and should I pursue this matter? The Angel card readings told me that all is moving accordingly and that new love is coming to my life, so what seems to be the obstacle?
With love and light,
Marzena
Dearest Marzena:
You have a beautiful name for a beautiful soul. I agree with the astrologer that we do have to reach out for our destiny. One of the most frequently asked questions any psychic gets asked is “Where is my soul mate?” I just did an interview on my radio program with soul mate expert Marj Bowers, the author of “Soulmates…The Truth.” I think you might be interested in listening to the archive. It sheds new light on the whole soul mate issue. Here is the link: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/voice-of-the-angels-
I also find that when we are attached to outcome, we do block our own path. Blocking ourselves in this way is definitely an obstacle to getting what we want. This is where I think too that there are certain cautions with which one should approach any reading. “Destiny” does get affected by free will. It’s something important to keep in mind.
Energy shifts and changes with free will. Then everything that follows shifts and changes from that as well. It’s the musical dance of the universe. But everything, everything always works to the highest good. So we have to be willing to accept a situation either way it shows up. This allows for energy flow and keeps us out of that attachment that is so fond of blocking our way.
We do have many soul mates here and we have them for very good reasons. These are aspects of the same soul. If one doesn’t work out because of free will choices, then we have opportunity for the same lessons with another aspect of the same soul. If that is confusing, begin to see yourself as a multi-dimensional being with many realities throughout the universe. If that is confusing, just know that we have opportunity to meet many that we have deep and what we think of as ”soul mate” connection with. There is just not necessarily one perfect, ultimate person for us. Everything is a lesson in love, with or without “soul mate.”
With regard to your question about whether or not you should pursue this, I vote for maybe one more email, then go on about your life. If he doesn’t answer, then as they say, he’s just not that into it. Move forward then. I find that people do make time for whatever it is they decide to make priority. You deserve to be priority. Be open to the possibility of love showing up, but in a different face. In this way, you allow it to happen, probably when you aren’t even expecting it. It’s sort of like a nice cosmic gift for lessons learned.
Angel Blessings to you,
Dyan
