True Love by Dyan Garris
True Love
What is true love anyway? We may have the perception that it’s being with our soul mate or having someone in our lives who loves us unconditionally. But in order to have true love in our lives we really must love ourselves first. Isn’t this narcissistic? No. There is a huge difference between being self-involved and loving the self.
If you want true love in your life, first give it to yourself. And give yourself that unconditionally. Isn’t this just permission to do whatever you want and then forgive yourself in the morning and hope everyone else does so as well? No. There is a huge difference between these two.
And why are we instructed to put our oxygen mask on first before assisting others? It’s because you cannot help anyone else until you first make sure you are alive and breathing. To do otherwise is to martyr yourself and that’s not your life’s purpose. Honor yourself in every way. Make healthy boundaries if you need to. Figure out what makes you happy and then go do it without fear and without limitation.
Our purpose in life is to love. It’s that simple. When you’re miserable, unhappy, stressed, worried, fretting, and the like, how is this being the love? When we’re blaming others, hostile, lashing out, abusive, self-abusive, taking on other people’s stuff, how is this being the love?
If you want love in your life you have to BE that love and extend that out to others like you would an oxygen mask. Then everyone breathes. Then it returns to you as form made manifest. This is the Law of Attraction.
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