Why Do These Things Happen?
HI, I stumbled to your website by chance. I am a 46 yr old married woman, though our marriage is anything but loving. I had a relationship with someone for over 3 yrs where he wanted me to be an island available only to him. I tried, but suddenly 3 months back he shut me out of his life and decided he didn’t have time for me. It is extremely painful and agonizing, I can’t seem to move ahead or heal myself emotionally or mentally. Please help me. I need to know why these things happen. Why do I still feel connected to him and don’t feel hatred or anger toward him? LOVE, Shar
Hello Shar:
I understand your pain and I’m so sorry to hear of it. To move forward from this experience, you first need to try to get it into perspective. When we’re hurt, it’s challenging to get anything into perspective, but do it we must. Try to see the bigger picture. That picture is that we agree to come together with certain people in this lifetime to learn lessons in love. That’s all it is. Everything is a lesson in love. You still feel connected because on a soul level you know this person. Your spirit remembers that you agreed to do this lesson. However, we have free will. We cannot make someone else remember the agreement or engage in the agreement. So this is why you’re feeling this pain. You know on some level that you’re supposed to do this work. He doesn’t. And this creates a distortion in the fabric that creates “pain.” Please try to let this go and know that this lesson in love will come around again in a different form once you let go. It’s very important that you take this time to show love to yourself as well. Take all the love you showed this person and now show it to yourself. When we love ourselves, our light shines out brightly in the world and attracts the loving relationship that we seek.
Angelic Blessings,
Dyan
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