Broken Hearted in CO
I know now I handled it incorrectly by allowing insecurity and fear to create jealousy when there shouldn’t of been any- he was with me – he had chosen me and I blew it by freaking out. We had gone so far as to introduce our kids to each other – and both of our kids loved the other one – my son is very upset still over the breakup – but I don’t know honestly if I will ever hear from him again.
We work together – but not at the same location – I am just wondering – I can’t get over him and I can’t contact him – so now what??? Because I do know I am miserable without him. I have been trying to believe the things he said when he broke up with me are true and he meant them – and I have tried to move on by going on dates with other men – but really in my heart I just want him back – I have been praying and manifesting and hoping with everything in my heart and soul – so any advice you have would be most helpful.
Dear Broken Hearted :
There is so much here, but it isn’t about manifesting, my dear. Contrary to what was taught previously regarding manifesting, we do not manifest from a place of “I want.” I understand your heartache. It’s an awful feeling to break up with someone, especially when there is a soul mate kind of vibe as there is here.
One of the very first things to understand is that your former boyfriend has free will and there is no amount of “manifesting” that will bring him back. Again, this is not “manifesting.” The way to get resolution here is to let go of what you think you want. This opens a pathway for the universe to bring you what you need. It’s challenging to do when we are attached to outcome, and have such a deep emotional bond. But do it you must. That is what will move you forward.
There is another very important thing here and that is that you are beating yourself up and blaming yourself for the breakup. This is non-productive at best and is a waste of your life force energy. Long distance relationship or not, if what you had together cannot withstand a “bad day,” there’s a bigger problem underneath.
If two people cannot have open and honest communication without fear of a total and irreparable blow out, then one must ask oneself why one attracts a relationship like this? Look to the patterns of other relationships and see how and where they are similar. That gives you keys to why certain things are acceptable to you. And you can move forward from there.
Peace to your heart,
Dyan Garris
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