Dear Dyan

Dear Dyan,

I am at a crossroads! I have been on maternity leave for the past 11 months and have to return back to work the end of next month, leaving my precious daughter in the hands of a childcare worker.  I would LOVE to stay at home and raise my child, but we cannot afford for me to do so.  How can I manifest abundance or prosperity to be able to do so. My heart breaks every time I think of leaving her.

Thanks for listening…I would love your advice,

Becky
From Ontario, Canada

Dear Becky:

How well I remember having to do this myself. I thought I was going to die. You know what? Turns out it was good for me and also good for the child. Now, in order to manifest true abundance and prosperity, you need to be in alignment with your life’s purpose and be willing to create from who you are. Contrary to what has been taught, we can’t just poof these things out into a tangible result with just the power of our mind. Think about what’s in the way of you creating your life the way you want it. Think about what’s in your way of creating a situation where you either work from home, you take your child with you to work, or you employ someone to come into your home and caretake the child, perhaps. There are many options, but you first have to get to what’s in the way of that. Aligning with your life’s purpose and creating your life from the root is not complicated, but it is definitely a process. You may find reading Money and Manifesting helpful.

My Blessings to you,

Dyan Garris

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Dear Dyan:

I hope you can see this message and I hope you can help me through this. I have been without a proper job for almost two years, last year I entered a high school and was fired one month later.  Since then I have been teaching private tuition with no social benefits, nor paid holidays nor insurance. Previous to this I taught languages at a University where I worked for 13 years.

Yesterday I was offered a job in a different city, two hours away from where I actually live. I have a little house in that town so moving wouldn´t be so hard. What worries me is that I would be teaching high school students once again, and I really had such a bad experience last year. So I´m really wondering if this would bring another failure to me. I need the benefits this school is offering so I can have a proper retirement. I´m 57 years old and I´m not easily offered jobs at this point in my life. But I´m so very much afraid of being disliked by the students. I´m not a nasty person. Quite on the contrary. I think they abuse my being easy going if I can say so. Please if you could answer to me you would really help me so much.

Love,

PS.  I joined you in facebook not too long ago.

Hello Beautiful Gabriela:

Life brings us certain experiences and opportunities to grow. That’s what this is. It’s about overcoming fear and learning about love. Self-love is included here. There is a huge opportunity for you to make a difference in someone’s life if you take this job. I hope you take it, but it’s a choice as is everything. Now, please try to understand that there are no failures. There are only lessons and these are all lessons in love. There is nothing to fear. No one can abuse you unless you allow it. Learn to make a boundary. It’s perfectly fine to make a boundary. Examine why you feel it is not ok to make a boundary. Remember, this isn’t a popularity contest. It’s about teaching and learning. In life, not everyone will like you. It’s just the truth. You do your best and that’s all you can do. Again, in any “bad” experience, try to see the bigger picture. That picture is always, always about love. Always. I hope you take the job, Gabriela.

With Love,

Dyan Garris

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Dear Dyan:

Hello and thank you for offering this wonderful site.  I am an Aesthetician and a Reiki Practitioner.  I also feel very connected to angels.  My true desires in life are to be a Reiki Master, skin therapist, and work with the angels all in unison.  I have been wanting to incorporate these services and have asked the angels for a mentor.  Do you have any advice for me?  Thank you.

Dear Daisy:

Hello Dear.  You’re very welcome. You have beautiful energy.  As in the advice to “My Current Path” we have to figure out what’s in our way first.  I see no reason why you can’t incorporate all of these services. There are no limitations unless we believe there are.  Examine what you’re afraid of.  I feel like the right mentor will show up at the right time. In the meantime, connect with your angels more through meditation and trust that the pathway will open.  Work on your confidence levels as well.  You do have everything you need.  It seems to be a matter of timing and connection. Keep in mind that sometimes things don’t show up when and how we expect them to. Just keep an open mind and let the journey unfold.

Blessings,

Dyan Garris

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Dear Dyan,

I am a mother of two beautiful children, a 4 and half year old girl, and a 3 year old boy. I am in a relationship with a man Daniel that I have been with for 4 years now. I chose to have my children first and career second. Daniel is unable to work full time due to disabilities, and I need to go forward with my journey to create a stable and strong future for my family. I know that I wish to get into nursing of some kind, but I am unaware of my greater abilities and what I would excel in. I love to help people and I feel that in my own way I am empathetic to how others feel and I would love to help others more than anything. I feel like I’m on a standstill and unable to move forward. Your advice would be so greatly appreciated. I desperately need guidance. I am also wishing so greatly to contact my angel(s) and any guidance on that would be so wonderful as well.

Sara

Dear Sara:

Examine first what you feel is truly in your way. If you had everything you need to move forward, what would that be exactly? You see, you have to figure out what you PERCEIVE is keeping you stuck and go from there. You already know that you wish to get into the field of nursing. Now, what keeps you from that really? Once you have that you’ll be able to move forward. When we get out of our perceptions of how things are or how things work, we have forward moving energy. We create our lives the way we have for a reason.  And there is always more than one way to do something. Look for it.

To connect with our angels isn’t difficult. Can we hear what someone is saying from the other side of a crowded and noisy room? Not very well. So the first step is to quiet the chatter of the conscious linear mind through meditation and breath work. Then listen carefully and don’t doubt. They’re there.

With angelic blessings,

Dyan Garris

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I know now I handled it incorrectly by allowing insecurity and fear to create jealousy when there shouldn’t of been any- he was with me – he had chosen me and I blew it by freaking out.  We had gone so far as to introduce our kids to each other – and both of our kids loved the other one – my son is very upset still over the breakup – but I don’t know honestly if I will ever hear from him again. 

We work together – but not at the same location – I am just wondering – I can’t get over him and I can’t contact him – so now what??? Because I do know I am miserable without him.  I have been trying to believe the things he said when he broke up with me are true and he meant them – and I have tried to move on by going on dates with other men – but really in my heart I just want him back – I have been praying and manifesting and hoping with everything in my heart and soul – so any advice you have would be most helpful.

Dear Broken Hearted :

There is so much here, but it isn’t about manifesting, my dear.  Contrary to what was taught previously regarding manifesting, we do not manifest from a place of “I want.”  I understand your heartache. It’s an awful feeling to break up with someone, especially when there is a soul mate kind of vibe as there is here.

 One of the very first things to understand is that your former boyfriend has free will and there is no amount of “manifesting” that will bring him back.  Again, this is not “manifesting.” The way to get resolution here is to let go of what you think you want. This opens a pathway for the universe to bring you what you need.  It’s challenging to do when we are attached to outcome, and have such a deep emotional bond.  But do it you must. That is what will move you forward.

There is another very important thing here and that is that you are beating yourself up and blaming yourself for the breakup. This is non-productive at best and is a waste of your life force energy. Long distance relationship or not, if what you had together cannot withstand a “bad day,” there’s a bigger problem underneath.

 If two people cannot have open and honest communication without fear of a total and irreparable blow out, then one must ask oneself why one attracts a relationship like this? Look to the patterns of other relationships and see how and where they are similar. That gives you keys to why certain things are acceptable to you. And you can move forward from there. 

Peace to your heart,

Dyan Garris

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Dear Dyan:

I recently signed up for an on-line Aromatherapy course.  This was a pretty important step for me as I finally made a decision that would help me change the path of my life.  The class was cancelled due to not enough interest. Now I’m wondering if I should take this as a sign not to start with or take this course and choose another that interests me or if I am completely off base and need to go in a different direction altogether or it’s nothing and wait until the class is offered again.  As you can tell I generally overthink things and will continue the discussion internally until I stall again.  Any advice or opinion would be greatly appreciated.  Thanks.

Dear  A Step Forward Halted:

Your situation is an excellent example of how the universe points the way for us, in spite of what we think we want.  It’s good that you like to examine things, because that gives us so many keys.  Now to figure out if an aromatherapy course is the right thing for you or not, examine the reasons you were led to this in the first place.  You want to change the path of your life. Does an aromatherapy course do that? Perhaps it does and perhaps it doesn’t.  Examine why you wanted to take it in the first place. It may be more important to look at deeper issues too, such as “Do I always second guess myself and why? Do I always follow my intuition and why or why not? What am I afraid of and why?” Examining these helps bring you into alignment with your purpose. When we have alignment of purpose, we end up having synchronicity and things just unfold easily and effortlessly. You can look at this situation as an unfolding of sorts as well. We are led. We have only to be willing to go on the path. You are and that’s good.  Second step:  look to why and where you don’t believe your guidance. Know that things don’t always show up the way we expect, and that in and of itself offers us a valuable opportunity to shift our perceptions and perspectives and see through the illusion.  When you get a chance take a look at my certified chakra balance course http://www.voiceoftheangels.com/chakrabalancecourse.html  and see if you resonate with it.  Maybe you do and maybe you don’t. My point is there are so many things out there. Allow yourself to quiet the chatter of the conscious mind so you can hear your guidance. Then go for it leaving room for miracles to happen.

Angelic Blessings,

Dyan

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HI, I stumbled to your website by chance. I am a 46 yr old married woman, though our marriage is anything but loving. I had a relationship with someone for over 3 yrs where he wanted me to be an island available only to him. I tried, but suddenly 3 months back he shut me out of his life and decided he didn’t have time for me. It is extremely painful and agonizing, I can’t seem to move ahead or heal myself emotionally or mentally. Please help me. I need to know why these things happen. Why do I still feel connected to him and don’t feel hatred or anger toward him? LOVE, Shar

Hello Shar:

I understand your pain and I’m so sorry to hear of it. To move forward from this experience, you first need to try to get it into perspective. When we’re hurt, it’s challenging to get anything into perspective, but do it we must. Try to see the bigger picture. That picture is that we agree to come together with certain people in this lifetime to learn lessons in love. That’s all it is. Everything is a lesson in love. You still feel connected because on a soul level you know this person. Your spirit remembers that you agreed to do this lesson. However, we have free will. We cannot make someone else remember the agreement or engage in the agreement. So this is why you’re feeling this pain. You know on some level that you’re supposed to do this work. He doesn’t. And this creates a distortion in the fabric that creates “pain.” Please try to let this go and know that this lesson in love will come around again in a different form once you let go. It’s very important that you take this time to show love to yourself as well. Take all the love you showed this person and now show it to yourself. When we love ourselves, our light shines out brightly in the world and attracts the loving relationship that we seek.

Angelic Blessings,

Dyan

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