Dear Dyan

Dear Dyan,

I have had some serious problems for the last three years, I met a wonderful man 7 years ago from England,we got married. It was divine connection with us. He is a good man, and I am good woman. I sponsored him to come to America. We were happy as two little kids.

During that time, My father who was my best friend, was diagnosed with terminal cancer, Then I found out they were about to foreclose on his farm.  Well my husband gave up all he had, and I gave up all I had to help my dad out. But it was too late. They foreclosed on the property.

I was devasted, and the news about my dads health threw me. My husband was my rock. We moved to Texas taking my poor dad with us, to move in with my sister. My husband was going through the immigration process. It was extremely difficult time for us. My dad was so ill.

My husband and I didn’t like my sister to much, because she put us in a very diffcult situation, She didn’t tell us her home was foreclosure and that her husband was leaving her. This was far too much. The pressure was mounting on us and causing a great deal of stress on us and our marriage.

Later we moved out into our own place. We found a little peace. But my husband and I were taking care of my dad full time. The doctors told us my dad had only three months to live. I died a million times during that
period. My dad suffered. I hurt so deeply for him. Because I loved him so much.

My husband, I love with everything in my heart. He has stood by me. But something happened along the way. After my dad died, He decided to move back to England. I didn’t disagree with him. I missed England, I missed my husband mom an family. He went back and I went with him to visit. He got his old job back, and moved in with his mum. I fell out with my sister and family. I was grieving so much, I couldn’t rest. I didn’t have any money, No job, and no home. I stayed in England for 5 months.

I couldn’t understand what happened to us. I told my husband I would get the funds some how to join him. But I couldn’t get a decent job that made any money. I ended up working for UPS part time. thats all I could get. One day on the job I passed out. They rushed me to the hospital. I found out I had cancer of the uterus. I was pregnant. But the baby wouldn’t survive. I had to tell my husband this news. He didn’t believe me.

I asked my husband to come and see about me. He wanted me to send him a ticket. I didn’t have the money. I didn’t know how to tell him. He stated he had no money to come…I died again. it seems I have had so many obstacles in my way. I lied to my husband about having money. Because I was so insecure. Now he wants to divorce me. He says he loves, but not in love. I don’t know what to do now. I don’t want my marriage to end. We are good together. It seems like we never had a real chance at real happiness.

Dear Marriage:

This is heart breaking. How sad.  I’m sorry to hear that you have endured so much. Bless you, kind soul. I’m sorry for your losses. Grief and loss is part of why you are finding it unbearable to now be facing a possible divorce. It feels overwhelming. My advice is to first address the previous and unresolved grief around the loss of your father and the loss of your unborn child. Then try to come into some kind of place of acceptance of all that has happened. Things always happen for a reason, even if it doesn’t seem like a very good one at the time.  In the face of adversity we do grow strong. Allow things to unfold. There is MUCH peace in acceptance of whatever comes along on our journey. Please try to get into that space. It’s not a space of giving up. It’s a space of peace.

May angels wrap you in their wings of comfort. You have my prayers.

Dyan Garris

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Dear Dyan:

I left because I was not happy with the relationship (AODA ISSUES).  I don’t believe I made the wrong decision.  But should I wait for him to figure it out? I was the best thing that happened to him. I believed this would be the man I would marry.

Dear C: 

I do understand how the heart can hurt in situations like this. You’re missing your idea of him. You’re missing his spirit, and the connection that you felt. In my opinion we should never wait for anyone to figure it out. To do so is to waste the gift of life. Forward moving energy is found in the “present.” That’s where the gift is, in the “now.”

Angelic Blessings and Love to you,

Dyan Garris

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Dear Dyan:

About two years ago I decided to go deeper into my Spirituality and Healing. I chose to get a Shaman teacher which was my preference, and have done a lot of meditation work.  Since that time I am now unable to manifest anything it seems, and am sleeping on someone’s couch.  I know it is a test of faith and I think I am listening, but we are really in dire need of a shift.  My question to you is how do I know if time will take care of it or if I am overlooking a block. All of a sudden I feel like I am questioning everything I thought I knew to be true.  Please help.  Thanks.

Dear E:

When we’re questioning everything we thought we knew to be true, it means we are in transition. This is from my book “The Book of Daily Channeled Messages:” Transition is that noisy, crowded, and perhaps uncomfortable train station where everyone else seems to know which train to get aboard. Just know that after you get your bearings, you’ll be able to figure that out too. In the meantime, there are two rules: (1) Don’t hop aboard the first train that comes by just to be going somewhere and (2) Don’t let anyone push you onto the tracks.

E, in order to move forward you have to get to the root of what it is blocking you. This doesn’t seem to be a time issue. We know this because you seem to be blocked at the root. You are out of alignment with your purpose. We create, and manifest from the root and from who we are. The rest follows. So it seems to be a fear issue. Fear gets in the way of faith. Examine what it is you’re really afraid of and exactly why. Do you feel unsupported? Are you afraid of being who you are and doing what you came to do? Are you afraid you are not up to the task? Are you afraid of how your life’s purpose will show up in the world? Are you afraid that it won’t bring you exactly what you need? Examine your definitions of success and failure. Examine who taught you these and what their belief systems were/are. And most importantly decide if they are your truth or not your truth. This is what has the power to move your forward. When we have times like these, I find that it is helpful to view the time as a great gift, even if it doesn’t seem so. While spiritual crisis can be confusing, it definitely has its merits.

May angels shine a light on your pathway,

Dyan Garris

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Dear Dyan:

I have been seeing rapid dark small spots or whatever they are moving in bedroom at night. I think my cats see them too. What are they? Energy in motion maybe? If so, why do I see them? And I also get a weird feeling inside me, sort of a ringing in my head, not ears. And I can feel like I can close in. Can’t explain it. It’s kinda scary, and I make it go away. I’m 52 years old. Not in menopause yet. Am I crazy? LOL. Can you give light on this, please? Thank you.

 Carol

Dear Carol:

This is very interesting. Someone just sent me their book entitled “Eye Floaters as Shining Structure of Consciousness.” I’ll be reviewing in it in the Fall issue of Voice of the Angels.com Magazine. I believe that part of what you’re seeing is consciousness energy associated with consciousness and awareness rising. However, I also believe at the same time that these are real entities you are seeing. Sometimes we see them just because they realize someone can see them and hear them. No you aren’t crazy. Personally, if it were me, I would sage in the bedroom, do some other clearing work in there, and if they make you uncomfortable just tell them to go away, as you are already doing. Try binding and rebuking them in the name of Jesus. Jesus has dominion over such. Then refuse to engage with them.

Angelic Blessings to you,

Dyan

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Dear Dyan:

I relate to the girl who wrote and said she didn’t want to be here anymore.  My question is I was abused and raped in the past. And it seems no matter where I move I am mistaken for someone else.  Do I have a double or astral traveling and don’t know it?  

Blessings,

Cece

Dear Cece:

Whenever our root chakra is damaged in the manner of abuse and rape, we can have trouble grounding ourselves here to the planet. I hope you seek some counseling for this. I believe EMDR would help you a lot with this.  But in the meantime, it’s important to ask yourself, “What am I doing here? What is my purpose? What did I come to do?” This will begin to help you align, commit, and re-ground yourself.

As to being mistaken for someone else, you most probably are astral traveling, but I don’t think that’s what this is about. We have many soul mates, many people we’ve agreed to meet with and do things with. It just seems as if you’re running into these no matter where you go. It’s a reminder to do what you came to do. I often say that we can move ourselves geographically, but we can’t really ever get away from who we are.

Angelic Blessings,

Dyan

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