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Angela’s Ex

Dear Dyan:

I was married for seven years and before I began the process of a divorce I sought the advice of a great psychic, and she informed me of several things that I have now seen come to pass. However I can’t seem to shake that something has a hold on me to my ex. I have remarried and as she said he loves me dearly. My fear is that God has not released me for one thing or another and I will destroy this man that deserves the woman that I was to my first husband. Please help me and no I’m not obsessed. I want nothing more than to be cut free from the thoughts. I have never done this before and I feel like I’m dying a slow death of misery. – Angela

Dearest Angela:

We get to choose whom we do certain lessons with. When those lessons are left undone, we can feel a certain attachment to them. For whatever reasons, you didn’t finish the agreed upon lessons with your ex. That’s why it’s haunting you. It’s not that God hasn’t released you. It’s that you haven’t released yourself. Ask yourself if you ran away from your ex and if so, why? Then ask yourself if you can do these unfinished lessons with anyone else. Then ask yourself what you’re doing with your current husband. These are things you have to examine, Angela, if you are to move forward. Hope it helps.

May Angels Bring You Peace,

Dyan

Ann Overeating

Dear Dyan:
I grew up in a family (including a cruel mother) that did not love me, so I coped by overeating. After college, I spent 20+ years working in Fortune 500 companies that continued the same cruel political treatment, and during my employment I gained additional weight. I have since left my old job, gone through some serious medical issues, been diagnosed with depression (not genetically – but from childhood trauma), started to paint, and see a counselor who has helped me end all birth family contacts and begin to start a new life for myself. I have lost and gained weight over the past years, and I was hoping you would be able to help me understand, heal, and release my old coping patterns with food.
Many heartfelt thanks. – Ann R.

Hello Ann:
In our society we tend to view food as “love.” Of course it’s not, but that’s the underlying belief system. If you look at that word you will notice the “lying” contained in there. It’s a lie. Overweight in spiritual terms is basically just protection. You were protecting yourself from your cruel mother and other trauma.

Now we get to patterns. Since you couldn’t “get” love from your mother by eating, in other words, the core spiritual issue remained unresolved, you just attracted a familiar pattern by working in Fortune 500 companies. We encounter opportunities to heal issues that haven’t been resolved by simply attracting situations that will give us a forum to do so. Painting is wonderful therapy because it opens up the emotional body in ways that other things cannot. It’s another opportunity to heal.

The way to release the old coping patterns is first to understand the base of the matter, which I just told you. Then to understand that releasing patterns is a process. Then to understand about love. We cannot and do not get love from the outside. We come in here with love in every fiber of our being. Then we are taught certain things that may take us away from the core of who we really are. Right now you’re just making your way back to the real you. Basically it entails “unlearning” whatever has been taught to you or that you have previously perceived about love.

There is another important thing to understand. Our birth contracts are all about love even if they don’t look that way or feel that way. It’s important to understand that we live in an illusion that was created for the purpose of learning lessons in love. I know it doesn’t feel like that. But that’s what it is.

You see, your cruel mother and you agreed to do this lesson because it is about love. That’s the truth. When we’re up in the holding chamber with our soul group before we choose to incarnate here, we make agreements. It goes something like this:

Mother: “I love you so much.”

Ann: “I need and want to learn some very important things about love. Will you teach me?”

Then you agree on the best way to do this.

Ann: “Mother, will you agree to show up as this very cruel person, so that I may have every opportunity to learn about loving myself?

Mother: “Ann, you aren’t going to like that very much. You will probably forget how very much I love you and think of me as a horrible, cruel person your whole life.”

Ann: “I know, but can we please do this lesson together? It will help me remember the love that I am.”
Agreed.

You see? It will help you to move forward if you are able to see the role your mother has played here and why. It’s all about love even if it doesn’t look like it or feel like it. I’m not saying that here on the earth plane that all of the things that you’ve endured are not valid. They are. However, it’s all about love. I hope that helps you, Dear One.

My CD “Release” is all about this. It’s eleven tracks of music vibrationally attuned to gently release what is stuck. You will find it here Music from “Release” is often heard on Music Choice’s Soundscapes cable TV channel and many other radion stations. It charted #3 on the music billboard, and includes #1 charting songs. I wept while I recorded it. It works!
Love to you, Darling.

Dyan Garris
www.voiceoftheangels.com – Live online psychic readings and free angel card readings
www.voiceoftheangelsmagazine.com – Spiritual magazine for multi-dimensional living

Deb’s Stalker

Dear Dyan:

For the last 7 and a half years, I have been stalked by a crazy woman (a stranger) who follows my every move. I have done the traditional things to clear this woman out of my life (filing police reports, etc.) as well as praying and visualizing, but still no success. Do you have any advice about what I might do to get this person out of my life once and for all? Thank you in advance for all your help.

Sincerely,

Deb

Hello Deb:

Stalking energy is very strange, isn’t it? What would cause a stranger to be so obsessed with someone? This situation you have here is karmic. On the earthly side of things, I’m not clear on whether or not you were able to get a restraining order. This might help. On the spiritual side of things my advice is to go into a meditative state, not just a state of visualization. Go into a deep meditative state and call this person’s spirit to yours. Ask her spirit what needs to be healed here. Do this until you receive a definite answer. That answer might be in layers. In other words, there may be more than one answer, so you’ll have to keep doing it until you get to the very root of the matter. Her spirit wants and needs something from yours, so be willing to give it to her to end this karma. Also while you are in this meditative state, take a look at the etheric cords that are between the two of you. Then unplug them. Do not chop them. Gently unplug. As you do so, close up the “socket” so that a reinfestation of energy hooking into yours cannot recur again. You must do this for every cord you unplug. You may have to do this across several sessions. Then put yourself in a golden white light and put your shields up. Again, you may find that you have to do this several times. Let me know how it goes.

Blessings,

Dyan
www.voiceoftheangels.com
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Transformation

Dear Dyan:

I have been told that the Universe has chosen me for a transformation that will take place at the end of the month. How do I let the Universe know that I am Ready to Accept? This may be my last chance to have an opportunity like this.

Dear R:

Truly we are all poised for transformation. Every one of our days has transformation stamped all over it. When you are aware of a huge life transformation on the horizon, as you are now, just go into a meditative state, or a prayer state, and tell your guides and angels that you are ready. Do this just as you would say it to a human. Then be willing to accept whatever comes along and recognize it as the opportunity for transformation that it is.

May your path be guided by Angels,

Dyan Garris

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Marzena – Reaching Out For My Soulmate

Dear Dyan:

 In May I had an astrology reading done which informed me of many changes coming into my life especially my love life.  The astrologer pinpointed when the contact would occur and the circumstances surrounding it. It did happen. We came in contact via e-mail and exchanged three e-mails, upon which I sent him my pictures and another e-mail saying hello to his personal e-mail.  I haven’t heard from him since July 9th.  

And without being too pushy how can I determine whether or not he is not interested anymore, or maybe he hasn’t received my e-mails?  I have read many astrology reports since then. They say that we are “companions of destiny.”  The astrologer told me that sometimes you have to reach out and grab your destiny and that it would be up to me.

Our initial e-mails were done through a particular website so I don’t know what happened and should I pursue this matter?  The Angel card readings told me that all is moving accordingly and that new love is coming to my life, so what seems to be the obstacle?

With love and light,

Marzena

Dearest Marzena:

You have a beautiful name for a beautiful soul. I agree with the astrologer that we do have to reach out for our destiny. One of the most frequently asked questions any psychic gets asked is “Where is my soul mate?” I just did an interview on my radio program with soul mate expert Marj Bowers, the author of “Soulmates…The Truth.” I think you might be interested in listening to the archive. It sheds new light on the whole soul mate issue. Here is the link: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/voice-of-the-angels-

I also find that when we are attached to outcome, we do block our own path. Blocking ourselves in this way is definitely an obstacle to getting what we want. This is where I think too that there are certain cautions with which one should approach any reading. “Destiny” does get affected by free will. It’s something important to keep in mind.

Energy shifts and changes with free will. Then everything that follows shifts and changes from that as well. It’s the musical dance of the universe. But everything, everything always works to the highest good. So we have to be willing to accept a situation either way it shows up. This allows for energy flow and keeps us out of that attachment that is so fond of blocking our way.

We do have many soul mates here and we have them for very good reasons. These are aspects of the same soul. If one doesn’t work out because of free will choices, then we have opportunity for the same lessons with another aspect of the same soul. If that is confusing, begin to see yourself as a multi-dimensional being with many realities throughout the universe. If that is confusing, just know that we have opportunity to meet many that we have deep and what we think of as ”soul mate” connection with. There is just not necessarily one perfect, ultimate person for us. Everything is a lesson in love, with or without “soul mate.”

With regard to your question about whether or not you should pursue this, I vote for maybe one more email, then go on about your life. If he doesn’t answer, then as they say, he’s just not that into it. Move forward then. I find that people do make time for whatever it is they decide to make priority. You deserve to be priority. Be open to the possibility of love showing up, but in a different face. In this way, you allow it to happen, probably when you aren’t even expecting it. It’s sort of like a nice cosmic gift for lessons learned.

Angel Blessings to you,

Dyan

Pregnant From a One Night Stand

Hi Dyan:

Could you please give me some spiritual guidance on my problem? I recently discovered I am pregnant. It is the result of a one night incident that should never have happened.

I’m completely devastated and don’t know what to do, I’m obviously no longer with the father, I’m 41years old,..too old to become a mother again, I have children from my marriage…all in their 20s and I don’t think they’re going to be happy with my news either.

I do believe that God doesn’t send a child into this world without a reason but I don’ think I can cope with it either. I did take the “morning after” contraception pill and still got pregnant. I now have the added worry that something will be wrong with the baby because of this.

And I feel so guilty that I really do not want to have this baby, but abortion is not an option for me, I could not do that. I would really appreciate any guidance you could give me, Dyan, Thank you. Love and blessings to you.

Dear Sweet One:

My heart goes out to you in this very challenging situation. The first thing that comes up as I read your letter is that forty-one is not too old to be a mother. Examine where this belief system comes from. Do you really believe that? I do understand that your other children are all grown and perhaps you feel that you don’t have the energy to raise another. But examine instead if you’re just afraid and examine also what you’re truly afraid of.

I’m with you on that God doesn’t send a child here without a reason. You have to ask yourself if you’re willing to find out that reason. It’s ok to say no. We do have free will. I think the bottom line here is that you have to decide whether or not you can accept the baby with unconditional love. That’s the bigger picture for you in this situation. That is what this lesson is all about.

Guilt truly is a useless emotion, as it isn’t forward moving and keeps you stuck right where you are. We make choices and then we live whatever those choices bring. We have the choice then of accepting the results or making ourselves sick with guilt about our decisions.

You can’t go back. You can move forward, however. I just don’t feel the morning after pill did anything to the child, but you can get tests early on now to see. From here, I don’t see anything amiss. It seems like the child just wants to incarnate and you have chosen each other.

But like everything, there has to be an agreement. That agreement constitutes and offer and an acceptance by both parties in order to be in effect. It’s a choice to choose not to raise the child or to raise it.

Again, it’s truly a lesson in unconditional love for yourself and for the child. It’s also a lesson in choices and consequences. If you can’t come to unconditional love, then the clear choice is adoption. When you can come to unconditional love, then I believe you will find each other.

I also have the feeling that if you did not carry the child to term, that somewhere inside yourself you would be even more heart-broken. I have pointed out the bigger picture and lessons here and I hope they help with your decision. I do know that whatever you choose to do, God will bring this to the highest and best for all.

My Love,

Dyan

April – Strange Occurances

Dear Dyan:

One day while walking to the post office a small blonde woman walked up to me and said “You’re an Angel.” I looked at her and said “No, I’m not! The woman said again, “You’re an Angel! I just shrugged it off as this woman was a nut!

Another day I heard a voice loud and clear: “You’re not here to collect things.” Two years ago we lost two homes, but things are getting better. Recently I became a Realtor.

I love to help people and inspiration is one of my gifts that I have to spread across the universe. For the past couple of years I’ve meditated and worked on speaking to my inner person. I’m grateful for all of my life lessons. Everything is a lesson. Forgiveness is an important aspect of my life.

If I don’t give my daughter what she wants then she doesn’t have anything to do with me. It hurts. Stuffing these feelings is easier than dealing with it. My husband and daughter don’t like each other.

I’m torn. On one hand I have the desire to make money so that I’m independent and can do what I want, like travel and see things and new people. On the other hand I feel like I’m being punished for not doing something right.

I have a feeling that these thoughts are from the ego. It’s like nothing is happening. Relief and hope are just around the corner…Life is a beautiful experience. Not sure where I wanted to go!

Thank you for listening.

April

Dear April:

There is a lot here in your letter. Let’s try to get to the root of it. We make choices about what we want to learn here before we even incarnate here. The woman in the Post Office was giving you a message about what you came here to do. It’s good that you know that everything is a lesson, because indeed it is. It’s all a lesson in love. And you know that too because you mention forgiveness as an important aspect in your life.

I encourage you to not continue to stuff your feelings down. This is a good lesson is self-love. It’s just not healthy, and this is where we create disease. Feel your feelings whatever they are. Honor them.

Be clear on what is your issue and what is your daughter’s issue. It appears that she’s in entitlement and uses manipulation. Get to the root of why this may be so. Examine the patterns that are underneath these behaviors. Examine your part in them.

Where inside yourself do you feel you have “failed” and why? In this illusion that we live in, it may seem as if there is “success” and “failure.” However, these are illusions of this world. If you always go to the bigger picture, if you always go to “What is this lesson in love really about?” then you keep yourself moving forward.

Money is an exchange. We get pretty funny about it because in this illusion we’ve ascribed great power to it. Really, it’s pieces of paper fueled by our perceptions of power. The energy that you’re describing is the “not good enough energy.” This energy resides in the 2nd chakra. This is the “birthing” area. When we have blockages here, we find it is challenging to make form manifest – birth our creations.

My advice is to familiarize yourself with the chakra system and in so doing you will be able to get to the root. That’s when you’ll see your life come into alignment and balance. And you will find that you’ll be able to create your life in any way you choose.

My book Money and Manifesting is designed to help you with this. My DVD “Doors To The Soul” is a relaxation DVD that is designed to balance your chakras in about 10 minutes. Blessings to you, Darling. I hope you keep in touch. Please come also to our free spiritual forum. You will find a lot of support and guidance there.

Finding Truth

Hi Dyan:

I came across your website and your cards really are beautiful. I have been in a dilemma for quite a long time. I performed a three healings not really knowing what I was doing and the results were good. I asked the angels to send me a teacher but no one has arrived. I constantly feel the need to be involved with children to help however I am unqualified. When I look for possible jobs prospects these positions will take me away from where I reside. I guess my concern is how do I really know these thoughts are divine or ego based? I feel they are divinely based but the fear of relocating family and moving away from family does not seem correct. I have been waiting for signs or something to give me a clear direction. Time is passing by. So I guess what I am asking is this where I take a leap of faith and completely trust in myself and spirit that the choices I make will be divinely led.

 

Dear Finding Truth:

Thank you for the compliment. Teachers come in many forms. Perhaps teachers have arrived, but you did not recognize these opportunities as such. Perhaps divine guidance is speaking to you but you did not recognize it as such. For example, your healings can be “a teacher.”

Truth has an unmistakable frequency and vibration. Think of things you know to be true already and think about the feeling associated with such. When something is true, you just know it. You feel it. This is what will help you discern the difference between and ego based thought or a divine guidance. Ego based thought always includes some kind of attachment to outcome.

Often when we are attached to outcome, we get in our own way as well. Fear is completely immobilizing and fear blocks the way forward. We should always trust completely in ourselves and our choices because there is no wrong way. All paths converge to take us where we need to go. Now is the time to take the leap of faith. Face the fears and trust in yourself and spirit and your choices at all times. Things may not turn out the way we are attached to them showing up, but in every choice is a teacher, a lesson and divine guidance.

Blessings,

Dyan Garris

www.voiceoftheangels.com – Live online psychic readings by real psychics and free angel card readings

www.voiceoftheangelsmagazine.com – Spiritual magazine for multi-dimensional living

 

 

 

How to Know Good Guidance from Bad

HI Dyan,

I just blew up my credit cards in a large amount, thousands of dollars for an educational program which turned out to be a real punch in the stomach. When I saw what I had done by being so needy and insecure with myself, I had a numerology report done. That said I had been led astray in some spiritual  practices (I think I followed my negative ego here) and that I would be put in a position to test my faith (where I absolutely have to have faith).  I believe that is why I have put myself in this position. Now I will have to fully trust spirit and listen as well as I can to what I hope is from my guidance and angels, and not dwell on the appearance of financial failure which is where I am…if I am looking at my life situation. So my question is this…in a number of angel readings it says that I am in a holding stage and patience is needed that my prayers have been heard and I will be taken care of not to rush into any rash decisions.  What should I make of this? I need to get some money soon.  I’ll admit going out and applying for just any job is daunting in itself, but if I am to believe that this guidance is right and not to put my faith in the appearances of no job and no money, what should I be doing? Just believing that the angels will let me know the next step? I mean what if I can’t hear what they are trying to communicate? I’d really like to get this down so I could feel I can hear or understand any messages I get are the right ones… Any help will be greatly helpful.

Vicki

Dear Vicki:

Your problem is multi-layered. At the root of the matter is money as self-worth. So you have to get to the root of who taught you the bigger lesson of money as self worth. Then you’ll be able to see why you are “needy and insecure.” It’s really not that you are those things. It’s that your view of money is distorted. Believe it or not, there is no such thing as financial failure. There is definitely the “appearance” and “illusion” of such based on learned perceptions and perspectives. Money is an exchange. It’s what we’ve chosen to exchange with here. It doesn’t define who you are. And yes, we will definitely put ourselves in certain situations to give ourselves opportunities to learn who we are. That’s what happened here.

You’re trying to figure out who you are. You’re trying to learn to trust your gut, your own intuition, your guidance. You’re definitely right about that. You’ve kind of just outsmarted yourself, or did you? You see, we can go on path A or path B, but the lesson is going to be the same. And yours is about learning to trust. It may be helpful to go back and figure out when you first learned not to trust. That will give you some keys to moving forward.

What you should make of angel readings that tell you that you are in a holding stage is to learn to use that time wisely and learn to delve into the bigger picture, because there always is one. You see, it’s not an excuse to wait to be saved. It’s a direction to introspect, to get to the root of the matter. It’s a suggestion not to go and buy another educational program that leaves you again in the situation you’re in now. It’s a direction to examine the patterns in your life that led you to where you are now, and patiently await changes that you make on the inside to reflect in your outer life. It takes us a long time to get where we are. We can’t undo it all in one minute.

I believe that your prayers have been heard. Absolutely. Know that you are being guided, are safe, and protected. Now you have to do something. You have to take action and KNOW that you will be guided in the right direction. That’s where trust and faith come in. Trust that you will pointed in the right direction. But then you have to be WILLING to go there.

My mini-book Fish Tale of Woe – Lost at Sea illustrates a similar predicament. If we can see ourselves reflected, we can get unstuck and move forward.  If you email me your address, I’ll send it to you. I think it will help you understand. There’s another thing about guidance. Sometimes we just see and hear what we want to see and hear. We have to learn how to get out of our own way and see what is true, rather than what we THINK is true or want to believe is true.

All Blessings,

Dyan Garris

www.voiceoftheangels.com – Free angel card readings online and phone psychic readings by real psychics

www.voiceoftheangelsmagazine.com – Spiritual magazine for multi-dimensional living 

 

Becky at a Crossroads!

Dear Dyan,


I am at a crossroads! I have been on maternity leave for the past 11 months and have to return back to work the end of next month, leaving my precious daughter in the hands of a childcare worker.  I would LOVE to stay at home and raise my child, but we cannot afford for me to do so.  How can I manifest abundance or prosperity to be able to do so. My heart breaks every time I think of leaving her.

Thanks for listening…I would love your advice,

Becky
From Ontario, Canada

 

Dear Becky:

How well I remember having to do this myself. I thought I was going to die. You know what? Turns out it was good for me and also good for the child. Now, in order to manifest true abundance and prosperity, you need to be in alignment with your life’s purpose and be willing to create from who you are. Contrary to what has been taught, we can’t just poof these things out into a tangible result with just the power of our mind. Think about what’s in the way of you creating your life the way you want it. Think about what’s in your way of creating a situation where you either work from home, you take your child with you to work, or you employ someone to come into your home and caretake the child, perhaps. There are many options, but you first have to get to what’s in the way of that. Aligning with your life’s purpose and creating your life from the root is not complicated, but it is definitely a process. You may find reading Money and Manifesting helpful.

My Blessings to you,

Dyan Garris

www.voiceoftheangels.com – Free angel card readings online and phone psychic readings by real psychics

www.voiceoftheangelsmagazine.com – Spiritual magazine for multi-dimensional living

Gabriela’s Teaching Job

Dear Dyan:

I hope you can see this message and I hope you can help me through this. I have been without a proper job for almost two years, last year I entered a high school and was fired one month later.  Since then I have been teaching private tuition with no social benefits, nor paid holidays nor insurance. Previous to this I taught languages at a University where I worked for 13 years.

Yesterday I was offered a job in a different city, two hours away from where I actually live. I have a little house in that town so moving wouldn´t be so hard. What worries me is that I would be teaching high school students once again, and I really had such a bad experience last year. So I´m really wondering if this would bring another failure to me. I need the benefits this school is offering so I can have a proper retirement. I´m 57 years old and I´m not easily offered jobs at this point in my life. But I´m so very much afraid of being disliked by the students. I´m not a nasty person. Quite on the contrary. I think they abuse my being easy going if I can say so. Please if you could answer to me you would really help me so much.

Love,

Gabriela

PS.  I joined you in facebook not too long ago.

 

Hello Beautiful Gabriela:

Life brings us certain experiences and opportunities to grow. That’s what this is. It’s about overcoming fear and learning about love. Self-love is included here. There is a huge opportunity for you to make a difference in someone’s life if you take this job. I hope you take it, but it’s a choice as is everything. Now, please try to understand that there are no failures. There are only lessons and these are all lessons in love. There is nothing to fear. No one can abuse you unless you allow it. Learn to make a boundary. It’s perfectly fine to make a boundary. Examine why you feel it is not ok to make a boundary. Remember, this isn’t a popularity contest. It’s about teaching and learning. In life, not everyone will like you. It’s just the truth. You do your best and that’s all you can do. Again, in any “bad” experience, try to see the bigger picture. That picture is always, always about love. Always. I hope you take the job, Gabriela.

With Love,

Dyan Garris

www.voiceoftheangels.com – Free angel card readings online and phone psychic readings by real psychics

www.voiceoftheangelsmagazine.com – Spiritual magazine for multi-dimensional living

 

Spiritual Career

Dear Dyan:

Hello and thank you for offering this wonderful site.  I am an Aesthetician and a Reiki Practitioner.  I also feel very connected to angels.  My true desires in life are to be a Reiki Master, skin therapist, and work with the angels all in unison.  I have been wanting to incorporate these services and have asked the angels for a mentor.  Do you have any advice for me?  Thank you.


Dear Daisy:

Hello Dear.  You’re very welcome. You have beautiful energy.  As in the advice to “My Current Path” we have to figure out what’s in our way first.  I see no reason why you can’t incorporate all of these services. There are no limitations unless we believe there are.  Examine what you’re afraid of.  I feel like the right mentor will show up at the right time. In the meantime, connect with your angels more through meditation and trust that the pathway will open.  Work on your confidence levels as well.  You do have everything you need.  It seems to be a matter of timing and connection. Keep in mind that sometimes things don’t show up when and how we expect them to. Just keep an open mind and let the journey unfold.

Blessings,

 

Dyan Garris

www.voiceoftheangels.com – Free angel card readings online in three languages and phone psychic readings by real psychics

www.voiceoftheangelsmagazine.com – Spiritual magazine for multi-dimensional living

My Current Path

Dear Dyan,

I am a mother of two beautiful children, a 4 and half year old girl, and a 3 year old boy. I am in a relationship with a man Daniel that I have been with for 4 years now. I chose to have my children first and career second. Daniel is unable to work full time due to disabilities, and I need to go forward with my journey to create a stable and strong future for my family. I know that I wish to get into nursing of some kind, but I am unaware of my greater abilities and what I would excel in. I love to help people and I feel that in my own way I am empathetic to how others feel and I would love to help others more than anything. I feel like I’m on a standstill and unable to move forward. Your advice would be so greatly appreciated. I desperately need guidance. I am also wishing so greatly to contact my angel(s) and any guidance on that would be so wonderful as well.

Sara

Dear Sara:

Examine first what you feel is truly in your way. If you had everything you need to move forward, what would that be exactly? You see, you have to figure out what you PERCEIVE is keeping you stuck and go from there. You already know that you wish to get into the field of nursing. Now, what keeps you from that really? Once you have that you’ll be able to move forward. When we get out of our perceptions of how things are or how things work, we have forward moving energy. We create our lives the way we have for a reason.  And there is always more than one way to do something. Look for it.

To connect with our angels isn’t difficult. Can we hear what someone is saying from the other side of a crowded and noisy room? Not very well. So the first step is to quiet the chatter of the conscious linear mind through meditation and breath work. Then listen carefully and don’t doubt. They’re there.

With angelic blessings,

 

Dyan Garris

www.voiceoftheangels.com – Free angel card readings online in three languages and phone psychic readings by real psychics

www.voiceoftheangelsmagazine.com – Spiritual magazine for multi-dimensional living

 

Broken Hearted in CO

Dear Dyan,This letter is of a very personal nature and directly relates to manifesting.  I have been praying to my angels for help in bringing resolution to this issue.
My Boyfriend broke up with me on June 15th – it was our first disagreement in 9 months because I lost my cool over the constant interference from his ex-wife who was constantly creating some problem or drama or sending me emails when she knew we were together. 
This is a long distance relationship but we had talked about our future together – all at his prompting – I always let him lead those types of conversations.  Anyway I purchased Bob Grant’s book get him back and have not talked to him since the week of the breakup.  He said he still wanted to be friends and would miss not hearing about what is going on my world.  But I have not spoken to him or tried to contact him at all – but I am wondering – what if he never contacts me?  It is a month tomorrow and nothing – not a word – I love him very much and we never had a disagreement ever before this – I always handled his ex’s interference cool and never let it bother me – but this last one caught me on a bad day and when he asked what I thought about it – I told him – and that was a mistake.

I know now I handled it incorrectly by allowing insecurity and fear to create jealousy when there shouldn’t of been any- he was with me – he had chosen me and I blew it by freaking out.  We had gone so far as to introduce our kids to each other – and both of our kids loved the other one – my son is very upset still over the breakup – but I don’t know honestly if I will ever hear from him again. 

We work together – but not at the same location – I am just wondering – I can’t get over him and I can’t contact him – so now what??? Because I do know I am miserable without him.  I have been trying to believe the things he said when he broke up with me are true and he meant them – and I have tried to move on by going on dates with other men – but really in my heart I just want him back – I have been praying and manifesting and hoping with everything in my heart and soul – so any advice you have would be most helpful.

Broken Hearted in CO
 
 

 

 

Dear Broken Hearted :

There is so much here, but it isn’t about manifesting, my dear.  Contrary to what was taught previously regarding manifesting, we do not manifest from a place of “I want.”  I understand your heartache. It’s an awful feeling to break up with someone, especially when there is a soul mate kind of vibe as there is here.

 One of the very first things to understand is that your former boyfriend has free will and there is no amount of “manifesting” that will bring him back.  Again, this is not “manifesting.” The way to get resolution here is to let go of what you think you want. This opens a pathway for the universe to bring you what you need.  It’s challenging to do when we are attached to outcome, and have such a deep emotional bond.  But do it you must. That is what will move you forward.

There is another very important thing here and that is that you are beating yourself up and blaming yourself for the breakup. This is non-productive at best and is a waste of your life force energy. Long distance relationship or not, if what you had together cannot withstand a “bad day,” there’s a bigger problem underneath.

 If two people cannot have open and honest communication without fear of a total and irreparable blow out, then one must ask oneself why one attracts a relationship like this? Look to the patterns of other relationships and see how and where they are similar. That gives you keys to why certain things are acceptable to you. And you can move forward from there. 

Peace to your heart,

Dyan Garris

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A Step Forward Halted

Dear Dyan:

I recently signed up for an on-line Aromatherapy course.  This was a pretty important step for me as I finally made a decision that would help me change the path of my life.  The class was cancelled due to not enough interest. Now I’m wondering if I should take this as a sign not to start with or take this course and choose another that interests me or if I am completely off base and need to go in a different direction altogether or it’s nothing and wait until the class is offered again.  As you can tell I generally overthink things and will continue the discussion internally until I stall again.  Any advice or opinion would be greatly appreciated.  Thanks.

Dear  A Step Forward Halted:

Your situation is an excellent example of how the universe points the way for us, in spite of what we think we want.  It’s good that you like to examine things, because that gives us so many keys.  Now to figure out if an aromatherapy course is the right thing for you or not, examine the reasons you were led to this in the first place.  You want to change the path of your life. Does an aromatherapy course do that? Perhaps it does and perhaps it doesn’t.  Examine why you wanted to take it in the first place. It may be more important to look at deeper issues too, such as “Do I always second guess myself and why? Do I always follow my intuition and why or why not? What am I afraid of and why?” Examining these helps bring you into alignment with your purpose. When we have alignment of purpose, we end up having synchronicity and things just unfold easily and effortlessly. You can look at this situation as an unfolding of sorts as well. We are led. We have only to be willing to go on the path. You are and that’s good.  Second step:  look to why and where you don’t believe your guidance. Know that things don’t always show up the way we expect, and that in and of itself offers us a valuable opportunity to shift our perceptions and perspectives and see through the illusion.  When you get a chance take a look at my certified chakra balance course http://www.voiceoftheangels.com/chakrabalancecourse.html  and see if you resonate with it.  Maybe you do and maybe you don’t. My point is there are so many things out there. Allow yourself to quiet the chatter of the conscious mind so you can hear your guidance. Then go for it leaving room for miracles to happen.

Angelic Blessings,

Dyan

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Why Do These Things Happen?

HI, I stumbled to your website by chance. I am a 46 yr old married woman, though our marriage is anything but loving. I had a relationship with someone for over 3 yrs where he wanted me to be an island available only to him. I tried, but suddenly 3 months back he shut me out of his life and decided he didn’t have time for me. It is extremely painful and agonizing, I can’t seem to move ahead or heal myself emotionally or mentally. Please help me. I need to know why these things happen. Why do I still feel connected to him and don’t feel hatred or anger toward him? LOVE, Shar

Hello Shar:

I understand your pain and I’m so sorry to hear of it. To move forward from this experience, you first need to try to get it into perspective. When we’re hurt, it’s challenging to get anything into perspective, but do it we must. Try to see the bigger picture. That picture is that we agree to come together with certain people in this lifetime to learn lessons in love. That’s all it is. Everything is a lesson in love. You still feel connected because on a soul level you know this person. Your spirit remembers that you agreed to do this lesson. However, we have free will. We cannot make someone else remember the agreement or engage in the agreement. So this is why you’re feeling this pain. You know on some level that you’re supposed to do this work. He doesn’t. And this creates a distortion in the fabric that creates “pain.” Please try to let this go and know that this lesson in love will come around again in a different form once you let go. It’s very important that you take this time to show love to yourself as well. Take all the love you showed this person and now show it to yourself. When we love ourselves, our light shines out brightly in the world and attracts the loving relationship that we seek.

Angelic Blessings,

Dyan

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Marriage Problems

Dear Dyan,

I have had some serious problems for the last three years, I met a wonderful man 7 years ago from England,we got married. It was divine connection with us. He is a good man, and I am good woman. I sponsored him to come to America. We were happy as two little kids.

During that time, My father who was my best friend, was diagnosed with terminal cancer, Then I found out they were about to foreclose on his farm.  Well my husband gave up all he had, and I gave up all I had to help my dad out. But it was too late. They foreclosed on the property.

I was devasted, and the news about my dads health threw me. My husband was my rock. We moved to Texas taking my poor dad with us, to move in with my sister. My husband was going through the immigration process. It was extremely difficult time for us. My dad was so ill.

My husband and I didn’t like my sister to much, because she put us in a very diffcult situation, She didn’t tell us her home was foreclosure and that her husband was leaving her. This was far too much. The pressure was mounting on us and causing a great deal of stress on us and our marriage.

Later we moved out into our own place. We found a little peace. But my husband and I were taking care of my dad full time. The doctors told us my dad had only three months to live. I died a million times during that
period. My dad suffered. I hurt so deeply for him. Because I loved him so much.

My husband, I love with everything in my heart. He has stood by me. But something happened along the way. After my dad died, He decided to move back to England. I didn’t disagree with him. I missed England, I missed my husband mom an family. He went back and I went with him to visit. He got his old job back, and moved in with his mum. I fell out with my sister and family. I was grieving so much, I couldn’t rest. I didn’t have any money, No job, and no home. I stayed in England for 5 months.

I couldn’t understand what happened to us. I told my husband I would get the funds some how to join him. But I couldn’t get a decent job that made any money. I ended up working for UPS part time. thats all I could get. One day on the job I passed out. They rushed me to the hospital. I found out I had cancer of the uterus. I was pregnant. But the baby wouldn’t survive. I had to tell my husband this news. He didn’t believe me.

I asked my husband to come and see about me. He wanted me to send him a ticket. I didn’t have the money. I didn’t know how to tell him. He stated he had no money to come…I died again. it seems I have had so many obstacles in my way. I lied to my husband about having money. Because I was so insecure. Now he wants to divorce me. He says he loves, but not in love. I don’t know what to do now. I don’t want my marriage to end. We are good together. It seems like we never had a real chance at real happiness.

Dear Marriage:

This is heart breaking. How sad.  I’m sorry to hear that you have endured so much. Bless you, kind soul. I’m sorry for your losses. Grief and loss is part of why you are finding it unbearable to now be facing a possible divorce. It feels overwhelming. My advice is to first address the previous and unresolved grief around the loss of your father and the loss of your unborn child. Then try to come into some kind of place of acceptance of all that has happened. Things always happen for a reason, even if it doesn’t seem like a very good one at the time.  In the face of adversity we do grow strong. Allow things to unfold. There is MUCH peace in acceptance of whatever comes along on our journey. Please try to get into that space. It’s not a space of giving up. It’s a space of peace.

May angels wrap you in their wings of comfort. You have my prayers.

Dyan Garris

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Should I Wait For Him?

Dear Dyan:

I left because I was not happy with the relationship (AODA ISSUES).  I don’t believe I made the wrong decision.  But should I wait for him to figure it out? I was the best thing that happened to him. I believed this would be the man I would marry.

Dear C: 

I do understand how the heart can hurt in situations like this. You’re missing your idea of him. You’re missing his spirit, and the connection that you felt. In my opinion we should never wait for anyone to figure it out. To do so is to waste the gift of life. Forward moving energy is found in the “present.” That’s where the gift is, in the “now.”

Angelic Blessings and Love to you,

Dyan Garris

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How To Take The Next Step – A Test of Faith

Dear Dyan:

About two years ago I decided to go deeper into my Spirituality and Healing. I chose to get a Shaman teacher which was my preference, and have done a lot of meditation work.  Since that time I am now unable to manifest anything it seems, and am sleeping on someone’s couch.  I know it is a test of faith and I think I am listening, but we are really in dire need of a shift.  My question to you is how do I know if time will take care of it or if I am overlooking a block. All of a sudden I feel like I am questioning everything I thought I knew to be true.  Please help.  Thanks.

 

Dear E:

When we’re questioning everything we thought we knew to be true, it means we are in transition. This is from my book “The Book of Daily Channeled Messages:” Transition is that noisy, crowded, and perhaps uncomfortable train station where everyone else seems to know which train to get aboard. Just know that after you get your bearings, you’ll be able to figure that out too. In the meantime, there are two rules: (1) Don’t hop aboard the first train that comes by just to be going somewhere and (2) Don’t let anyone push you onto the tracks.

E, in order to move forward you have to get to the root of what it is blocking you. This doesn’t seem to be a time issue. We know this because you seem to be blocked at the root. You are out of alignment with your purpose. We create, and manifest from the root and from who we are. The rest follows. So it seems to be a fear issue. Fear gets in the way of faith. Examine what it is you’re really afraid of and exactly why. Do you feel unsupported? Are you afraid of being who you are and doing what you came to do? Are you afraid you are not up to the task? Are you afraid of how your life’s purpose will show up in the world? Are you afraid that it won’t bring you exactly what you need? Examine your definitions of success and failure. Examine who taught you these and what their belief systems were/are. And most importantly decide if they are your truth or not your truth. This is what has the power to move your forward. When we have times like these, I find that it is helpful to view the time as a great gift, even if it doesn’t seem so. While spiritual crisis can be confusing, it definitely has its merits.

May angels shine a light on your pathway,

Dyan Garris

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Dark Energy In The Bedroom

Dear Dyan:

I have been seeing rapid dark small spots or whatever they are moving in bedroom at night. I think my cats see them too. What are they? Energy in motion maybe? If so, why do I see them? And I also get a weird feeling inside me, sort of a ringing in my head, not ears. And I can feel like I can close in. Can’t explain it. It’s kinda scary, and I make it go away. I’m 52 years old. Not in menopause yet. Am I crazy? LOL. Can you give light on this, please? Thank you.

 Carol

 

Dear Carol:

This is very interesting. Someone just sent me their book entitled “Eye Floaters as Shining Structure of Consciousness.” I’ll be reviewing in it in the Fall issue of Voice of the Angels.com Magazine. I believe that part of what you’re seeing is consciousness energy associated with consciousness and awareness rising. However, I also believe at the same time that these are real entities you are seeing. Sometimes we see them just because they realize someone can see them and hear them. No you aren’t crazy. Personally, if it were me, I would sage in the bedroom, do some other clearing work in there, and if they make you uncomfortable just tell them to go away, as you are already doing. Try binding and rebuking them in the name of Jesus. Jesus has dominion over such. Then refuse to engage with them.

Angelic Blessings to you,

Dyan

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Am I Astral Traveling?

Dear Dyan:

I relate to the girl who wrote and said she didn’t want to be here anymore.  My question is I was abused and raped in the past. And it seems no matter where I move I am mistaken for someone else.  Do I have a double or astral traveling and don’t know it?  

Blessings,

Cece

 

Dear Cece:

Whenever our root chakra is damaged in the manner of abuse and rape, we can have trouble grounding ourselves here to the planet. I hope you seek some counseling for this. I believe EMDR would help you a lot with this.  But in the meantime, it’s important to ask yourself, “What am I doing here? What is my purpose? What did I come to do?” This will begin to help you align, commit, and re-ground yourself.

As to being mistaken for someone else, you most probably are astral traveling, but I don’t think that’s what this is about. We have many soul mates, many people we’ve agreed to meet with and do things with. It just seems as if you’re running into these no matter where you go. It’s a reminder to do what you came to do. I often say that we can move ourselves geographically, but we can’t really ever get away from who we are.

 

Angelic Blessings,

 

Dyan

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Gail in Relationship

Dear Dyan:

I have been struggling with a relationship issue for the past year and have been trying to figure out what to do.  I feel that because of this heartbreak, I am on a spiritual journey to first and foremost love and accept myself.  I truly love this other person and want to share some of my journey with him.  He has shut the door on me and I didn’t know if there was a way to reach out to him to help him on his journey as well.  Any words of advice would be greatly appreciated.  Thank you and bless you.

Gail

Hello Dear Gail:

Relationships are a core issue, a root chakra issue, but also obviously involve other parts of ourselves, such as the heart. A healthy relationship involves our whole self. You are definitely on a spiritual journey to love and accept yourself at a very intrinsic level and on all levels. True. I’ve often said that the soul mate is not the person that comes in to complete us, but it’s the person that comes in when we’re already complete within our own spirits. We do also meet many soul mates here.

Everything is a lesson in love and we do have free will, so we can’t make a soul mate engage in a lesson with us, even if there is agreement to do so on a soul level. That’s what makes some of these lessons in love so challenging. It’s like we know the person, we recognize the person, but yet they run away from us, leaving us hurt and bewildered at their words and actions. Try to understand what’s transpired here in this way. By his free will he has decided not to engage in this lesson with you at this time. It’s not about you. It’s really about him.

If we love someone unconditionally, we allow them to simply have their journey, even if it isn’t the journey we want them to have. In this process we also learn to love and accept ourselves unconditionally. That’s the bigger picture. You’ve heard the saying “If you love something set it free and if it belongs to you it shall return to you?” This is the same thing I’m always telling people about letting go. To let go doesn’t mean that we don’t care. It means that we care enough to have unconditional love and trust in the universal process of our desires returning to us as form made manifest when we do let go. To do otherwise, disempowers us and blocks our own way. I hope this has brought some peace to your situation.

All angelic blessings to you,

Dyan

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Mandy At A Crossroads

Hi Dyan:

I came across your site basically whilst looking for answers.

I am at a bit of a crossroads in my life and I am hoping to study holistics and complimentary therapy. I am an optimistic, healthy enough person and I am celebrating my 40th in October.

I was told about angels a few years ago, and to be honest thought it was silly, even though I am very open minded. But after asking for guidance and having been helped so far in decisions and mental matters, I do believe wholeheartedly they are with me always.

My question I guess is, if my path is clear and open, and I am at this new phase in my life, and I am being protected and kept safe, then do I trust my instinct regarding my future? Or do I be a little reckless? Or just do what makes me happy?

I am an academic and have worked for many years as a counselor, healthcare lecturer. Studying does not come easy to me and I have to work really hard, but I have always wanted a more hands-on calming career that involves massage, aromatherapy, Reiki, and beauty. But people are looking at me as if it is a step down!

I am so confused, I just want to be happy and not look back and think I didn’t take enough risks. Any advice will be gratefully received and apologies if my writing is as confused as my feelings.

:) Love & Wishes from Mandy
   in Scotland

Hello Dear Mandy:

Thank you for finding us here and connecting. And yes, indeed angels are with us always!  No doubt about it. Now to answer your questions: There are a couple of really big things involved here and these underlie your whole issue.  If you can clear them up, the confusion will dissipate and the path will become clear.

The first one is to ask yourself why you wouldn’t trust your instinct regarding your future.  While you’re examining this, look to the underlying pattern. Look to the times in your life when you didn’t trust your instincts and then examine what followed. And see if you can identify where the urge to be reckless may have originated from. For example, as a teenager, if someone told you that you couldn’t do something, did it make you feel as if you wanted to go out and take risks even though your instincts told you otherwise?

Also look at who taught you not to trust your instincts and why.  This is the root of the matter. We create from our root and if our root is blocked in this way, we find it challenging to create much of anything.  And consequently we end up feeling stuck, blocked, confused, and find it challenging to move forward.

The next thing I see here is that when we let other people tell us who we are we really get off our path and become misaligned. This blocks the flow of energy necessary for co-creation. We need to learn to validate ourselves.

 I understand about people looking at you as if it’s a step down. People tend to formulate a perspective of a person, and then have trouble seeing them in some other way.  We do this because as humans we have tendencies to need to label and classify things so that we can understand them from our own belief systems, perceptions, and perspectives.  As humans, this is also very limiting for all.

We need to learn to be secure in who we are and our choices and our instincts. It doesn’t really matter what anyone else thinks. It only matters what you think. You are in charge of defining yourself.

When we’re aligned with our purpose, the rest follows. Everything falls into place. We cannot NOT be who we are. We’re living in a time period where the universe is truly asking us “Who are you?” So you must begin by asking yourself whether at a fundamental and root level you are a lightworker or an academic.

Then, of course, one could take it all a step further and ask oneself if they could combine the two.  Combining different aspects of ourselves is really a big key to turning the recipe of your life into one very unique, tasty, and very satisfying dish, rather than some boring thing that may look good and may feed others satisfactorily, but does nothing whatsoever to assuage our own hunger.

Angelic Blessings to you, Mandy, as you move forward on your path!

Dyan

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Our Spiritual Journey

Hi Dyan, i just wanted to share this with you. After being guided to someone over seven weeks ago when I had had enough of this life and was being and still am supported with challenges, I came across your site and started realising my spiritual journey.

I was facing many blocks and began to read your Angel cards, along with some other literature, I was soon learning how to ask for help and started to recieve signs. Anyway this morning when I woke up I was rubbing my eyes and through the darkness I was overcome with a visualisation which was a kelidescope of the most beautiful colours with shapes of golden and white light orbs and Angels with different colours around them. It gave me the most fantastic feeling I have ever felt and I just wanted to thank you for your BEAUTIFUL website which has become a daily part of my spiritual journey.

I have not been able to share this with anyone as I am sure they will think I have gone cuckoo!!I am hoping to build further on my relationship with my Angels, guides and spirit, I am so going with the flow. I have never felt so at peace.

x Adie x

Hi Adie:

Thank you so much for taking the time to write and share your experiences. As I said to you in my e mail, it’s not cuckoo to connect with our guides and angels. In fact it’s necessary to do so, as the veils thin between this earthbound reality and the other realms. We must all reach out and connect and remember our oneness if we’re going to transform and transition into whatever comes next. I’m so happy to hear that you are willing to go on your spiritual journey. Thank you for including all that is here to guide you on your way. My heart is joyful!

Angelic Blessings on your path,

Dyan

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Feeling Like An Alien

Dear Dyan: 

As crazy as this sounds I don’t feel like I belong here on Earth. Everything seems so foreign to me that is supposed to be normal. Take for example relationships. I try to act normal and say I want to date and fall in love…but in reality the entire idea to me is weird and uncomfortable. Also, violence and the way people treat each other I just cannot understand it and if I do hear or see anything like this it deeply affects me and I cannot bear it and feel responsible for it.

Many times I do want to leave here. I feel like the oddball out and I hate it. Sometimes these feelings get so intense that I just wish I could leave already. I feel like okay, it’s been great but I want to go to where I really came from and let this “vacation” end already because I have had had enough time experiencing all of this. I know this sounds nuts because I even have a difficult time believing what I am saying to you, but it’s true.

I have looked up the term star child and at times I wonder if that’s me and who I truly am. I have been told that I am an Earth Angel by more than one person who never knew that the other said the exact same thing to me and also with me opening a book up to an exact page with that message in it. If I am what’s the point of feeling this way and going through life in such a manner?  I am not trying to put labels or limitations or myself with stating this,but rather showing you where I am coming from.

I am not sure how to conform or be myself without being viewed as a freak which is what I get at times with my fascination with angels, and other metaphysical beliefs that I spend time learning/reading about. A lot of people I know don’t get me and who I am and have changed into. What can I possibly do to help myself and overcome these deep feelings of alienation?

Hello Angel:

I hope it’s helpful to know that I understand completely. It’s not as crazy sounding as you think.  You’re just missing “Home” and that’s OK. Beings from the angelic realm volunteered and were sent here to Earth to help hold the grid, and to try to help shift the deep-seated negative vibrations of this planet, for many reasons. One reason is because the way people comport themselves here is affecting other beings and planets. So it’s very simple: Beings with strong and loving vibrations such as you have, were asked to come here to help negate the negative energy that comes from the way people treat one another here.

In fact, I just said this very thing to my husband yesterday. I said that I cannot stand the way people treat one another and their inability to see the bigger picture of what they do. Many here are stuck in what they “think they see.” Just know that you are not alone and there are many “Lightworkers” who feel exactly the way you do, even if they don’t say so. The point of being here is not to feel alienated, strange, and different, but to hold a point of Light to the planet. In other words, if you truly see the bigger picture, then you must begin to try to live the bigger picture.

Now, what can you do? The first thing is to focus on connecting with like-minded people, such as in our Voice of the Angels.com forum.  The second thing is to try to let go of what other people think of you. I know that can be challenging, but you can do it. Validation must come from inside, not outside. Just be comfortable in who you are and begin to align with your life’s purpose. You will have to do some soul-searching to figure out exactly what that is, but once you find it a lot of what you’re feeling right now will dissipate.  

The earth-bound ego will tell us that we need to be a certain way to fit in. The ego will tell us that we need other people to stamp our parking ticket. But that’s the illusion. You’re OK. There isn’t anything wrong with you, but you have to come to know that deeply, firmly, and undeniably inside yourself so that you can do the work you came to do.  When you focus on that – living your life’s purpose -  a lot of the outside stuff falls away and become unimportant.  Learn to love yourself Angel, because when you do things will begin to fall into place.

With Love,

Dyan

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Voice In My Ear

Hi Dyan. Thank you for your wonderful site. I know I was guided to find it. I have written in your site about my confusion upon opening up. Most nights I’m woken up at a certain time of night with wheels of sparkling energy rotating very quickly. Also energy is literally touching me as I feel it when it gets so near me it leaves a most over-powering scent of perfume. But one particular night I was woken up to a man speaking in my inner ear. He sounded quite foreign to me as, I couldn’t make out what he was saying but his voice
sounded kind. There were also bell sounds going off around his voice. I’m often hearing songs being played in my ear. Please can you give me your professional opinion on this and what do you think it is?

Love and light to you,

Elaine

Hi Elaine:

Thank you for writing. I’m happy to hear you are enjoying Voice of the Angels.com. I have read your posts in the forum and understand what you’re experiencing. These things are happening because you are awakening to your spiritual gifts. Now you just need to find a way to embrace them. It’s important to understand that there is nothing to be afraid of. Our guides and angels makes themselves known to us in different ways and what you’re experiencing is just that. Music, bells, sounds, smells, sparkling light – these are all gentle ways of communicating their presence to you and these things are processed with the emotional body, rather than with the conscious mind. It’s a way of communicating in a non-linear fashion. To use our spiritual gifts we have to be able to consciously relax the conscious mind so you can “hear” the non-linear communication. Your angels and guides will communicate to you in your dreams as well as the way they are communicating now.  Here’s one way of looking at it: you’re being “awakened” because you’re “awakening” to your spiritual self.

With Angelic Blessings,

Dyan

Choosing A Path Through My Dream

Dear Dyan:

I have been lost spiritually for years now and have been looking for inner peace since my last miscarriage 9 months ago. I am afraid that I have chosen my spiritual path through my dream and do not fully understand all the implications. In my dream, I was with a group of women that felt like friends. We were celebrating some thing in a hotel. We were sliding on a water bed and decided to go an indoor pool. I was in the water alone when an elderly man asked my belief in god. I replied no thank you, I choose the middle path. The water level dropped half down. In my dream I thought this is weird and I looked down and see my hand toiling a string in the water and making the string move in snake like movement. I felt like I was content with it. Does this dream sound like I am walking farther from God? Please help, Dear Dyan.


Hello Dear K:

There is a lot of symbolism in this dream. There is a lot going on here. Yes, it does seem as if you are walking further from God. But it’s not just that. The water here symbolizes life and it’s as if you’re walking away from your life. You’re living half of your life, but you may seem content with that on the surface. The water also symbolizes the miscarriage, the loss of half the water (as life), and the hotel symbolizes being away from “Home.” 

It seems as if there is some kind of fear of believing in God or believing in the spiritual side of things even though you are a spiritual being.  It’s as if you don’t want to believe or accept that part of you because you’re angry and don’t want to believe in a God that may disappoint you or has disappointed you, or that you may disappoint by feeling that you can never measure up to some required perfection.

Examine why you are spiritually “lost.” When exactly did that start? And then examine your concept of “God.” What we have here is the illusion of separation. Examine who taught you the concept of “God” and examine your own current belief system about God. Try to embrace the spiritual part of yourself, not as something separate from who you are, but as part of who you are. Clearly, you are guided and protected, even if it does not seem so to you. It’s true. We do get to choose our path, and we never walk it alone.

Angel Peace and Blessings to you as you rediscover yourself,

Dyan

White Feather

Hello Dyan:

Today I was sat at my computer and all of a sudden I noticed something tiny floating up from the floor on my right hand side, I looked and followed it with my eyes, and it came right in front of my face, and just hovered there for a few seconds.  At first I thought it was smoke or something, but i caught it, and when I looked it was the tiniest softest whitest feather i have ever seen.

 

 

Dearest White Feather:

Thank you for writing and for the compliment on the site. I appreciate it very much. I’m sorry to hear you are having such a rough time and please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. There are many meanings for white feathers, a primary and traditional one being a symbol of cowardice. However, in metaphysical terms, the white feather symbolizes peace and spiritual awakening. It can also mean good news is forthcoming and that things you have been worried about aren’t as horrible as you think. It’s also a symbol our angels use to let us know they are there and that they seek to bring us comfort in that knowledge that we are being guided, protected, and looked after, even if it doesn’t seem so.  The white feather that was sent to you is a sign that your angels are around you. Please take comfort in this, try to manage your stress in healthy ways, and find joy in little moments as this begins to open pathways for you. Your white feather is a very special gift to you.

Angelic Blessings are all around you,

Dyan



Real Estate License – Wrong or Right?

Hi Dylan,

Thank you so much for answering me so quickly about my husband and I. It helped so much!

I just got my real estate license in May of last year. Was this a right move for me? Or should I do something different? Thanks so much!!


Kathryn C.

 

Greetings K.C.

You’re very welcome. I can’t do psychic readings here. However, whenever we are wondering whether something is ‘right” or not there are several things to consider. First of all, does it feel right to you? Next examine your core motivations for getting your real estate license. Is this in line with your life’s purpose, or is there another reason you decided to get it?  Was there a strong solid inner voice pointing you in that direction? Does everything inside you scream “real estate license?”Is this your passion? What was the main reason you chose to go in this direction? What are the goals? When we start looking at our lives as a series of choices that lead us to where we’re supposed to go, rather than a series of “right” or “wrong” moves, we take back our power of creation. And from there we can do anything we desire.

Angel Blessings,

Dyan

 

 

Follow-up From a Dear Dyan Letter

Dyan,

 

I have to tell you that as you well know there truly are no “coincidences.”  The woman I told you that I met on another site, Lynn who is from my home town…well I was drawn to her for a reason.  We started to ‘talk” via e-mail…..I immediately “knew” things and began to share them with her…It was amazing…I haven’t even used your cards yet…..I am looking forward to using them to channel messages for her.

 

I actually believe that I can “read” for people and for you when you feel that I am ready. As long as I keep my “ego” out of it and try to interpret the messages for people.  Lynn shared with me that she has had some experiences with her “radio” so to speak and was looking for support since her husband dosen;t believe or support her in this and it is hard to find people to share your feelings about this with as well. 

I hope you don’t mind, but I shared my letter from Oct. to you and your responses from your Dear Dyan Column.  I see a lot of me in her…she is where I was when I wrote to you.  I read the letter again and your responses……Dyan I wanted to cry as I read it……..When I read it now, it is like looking at a different person…that person who wrote that is not the person I am now………

Your kindness, guidance and Divine Grace have helped to transform me for the better, VOA is a haven and home in which I can be supported and continue to learn and grow…..I have met such amazing, loving people because of you and your co-creations…..

I shared all of this with Lynn and how much all of you have meant to me and I realized that she and I were brought together for a reason…..I know how scared and confused I felt and I know she feels that now…..I know what it meant to me to have your wisdom guide me and I am ever so humbled to be able to guide her to VOA and your wisdom as well. 

 

What I was so afraid of has become such a blessing and a gift……I have now seen how it helps people to heal and feel the love that we are all surrounded by….I just wanted to let you know how truly grateful and humbled I am for your grace.  As I type this I am beginning to cry for I realize just how much of a blessing you have been and where I would be if you had not answered my letter.

 

I thank God for his divine guidance and placing you in my path.  My prayers were answered 10-fold as I had been praying for God to place someone in my path to help me with what was happening and poof…there you are in all of your Angelic Glory!!!

 

Please feel free to post this on VOA if it is OK with you, as I would be happy for people to know and possibly be helped by this e-mail.  I would love for them to know  that they are not alone and that there are people who care and know how they feel and that our “knowing, hearing, seeing or feeling” are blessings and nothing to be afraid of.

 

All My Love!

MB