Dear Dyan
Firstly thank you for providing such a great website. My dilemma is that I’m at a crossroads in my life and I suppose I’m being asked to trust and let go when one of my fears is losing control and being unsupported.
Looking back I have tended to use self abandonment/rejection as a way of controlling situations (unconciously until now). I have read lots of personal development info and this latest ‘law of attraction’
concept seems to me to be about controlling what I want which is what I feel I need to let go of (ie controlling),so I’m confused.
How do I let go of controlling and also release my self abandoning/rejection tendencies. I’m confused.
Hopefully you may be able to help.
Thank you
Christine
Dear Christine:
You’re welcome, and thank you for writing and visiting voiceoftheangels.com. This is such a great letter! I think so many people are feeling these very same things. To answer, I could write a book about this. I did! Money and Manifesting has a lot of the answers you seek. Now, half the battle is looking back and identifying your patterns and you’ve done that here, so that is excellent. When we identify a pattern we then have the power to change it, thus changing our lives. It’s step one in “forward moving energy.” You’re on the right track. Good for you!
And you’re absolutely right about having to let go. Absolutely. This is a very important step in manifesting that a lot of people just aren’t understanding.
Manifesting is a process. Co-creating is a process. The Law of Attraction is but one step in the process. The Law of Attraction is for attracting, not manifesting. Everything that’s currently being taught with the LOA is teaching people to create from the mind and that is just not how we create. We are not biologically designed to create “life” with our minds. We create from the root. And the energy of money resides in the root chakra.
In order to manifest, we need to basically “connect the dots” of the energy of all of the chakras, not just the energy contained in the mind. And the final step in manifesting is definitely to let go and let things go up and out from the 7th chakra, so they can return to you as form made manifest.
I wrote a meditation for manifesting “The Magic of Manifesting” to teach people just this very thing. In it you learn your angel’s name and they take you through all of the steps of co-creating and manifesting. You learn how supported you really are. We definitely were not just dropped off here on the planet. We are not alone. We are fully supported!
Now, how do you let go of the need to control? You’re already doing it. Being WILLING to just go with the flow is a huge thing. This is where we align our WILL with universal WILL. And being aligned with universal will is completely necessary in order to manifest and co-create. To try to use the LOA as a means to try to control what we “want” doesn’t ultimately work as many are beginning to figure out. And there is something else that you are learning too. We cannot create and manifest from a place of fear. We have to let go of fear. The power to create anything is in the love.
There is something else to understand here and that is about patterns. Patterns are taught to us. You didn’t come in here with self-abandoning/rejection tendencies. You were taught these things as a function of experiences or someone else’s belief systems. Once you fully understand that these “tendencies” do not really belong to you, and then figure out who they really do belong to, you will find it easier to just let go. That will be the very first thing that you can let go of. Then you will begin to see the energy in your life clearing up and you’ll find yourself moving forward. Be willing to align, as you are, and understand that you are being guided, you are on the right track, and I see good things ahead. There is such power in letting go! Thank you for writing.
May Angels continue to bless you,
Dyan
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