Letter from Heartbroken
Dear Dyan:
I love a man with all my heart and soul. He has broken up with me to move
to China. How do I stop loving him? How do I stop crying about missing him?
Heartbroken
Dear Heartbroken:
Bless your heart, I feel your pain. Awwww. Love is the strongest power in the universe. The answer is you don’t stop loving. Ever. Without love, we are nowhere. When we truly love someone, we love unconditionally. And that includes being able to step aside from our own wants, needs, and desires to accept and honor the other person’s journey, wherever that journey may lead them. There is great and profound peace in simple acceptance. So, don’t stop loving him, but transform that love into something higher. That’s the challenge here. Know that his decision to move to China is part of his learning and part of his journey and also part of yours. Everything is always for a reason, even if we do not see or agree with the reason.
We do want the best for those we love. From an earth plane perspective, when we focus on something other than our heartache and emptiness and begin to reach out a helping hand to others, we then have a platform for healing the pain. When we extend ourselves to others we open the flow for love to return to us. If we’re dictating how we want that love to return, we are telling the universe what to do and thus blocking ourselves in all areas.
Angel Love,
Dyan
