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Letter from Feel So Lost

Dear Dyan:

Hi there, firstly I want to say thank you for the time that you dedicate to all of us who aren’t quite sure of where we are going or what we are doing.

I am just recently joined the forum and find that as much as I read I still don’t feel that I am getting the answers that I seek.  I have been told that I should just stop looking and learning however I just don’t feel that is the right thing for me.  I get the strongest feeling that I am missing something and that when I find it, it will open an amazing new life for me,
if that makes sense, like I am not really fulfilling what I am meant to be nor am I the person that was planned for me.  Does that make sense?  Sorry if it doesn’t.  Please if you have any advice for me or if you can ask my angels to make themselves known to me.  I know they are giving me signs and trying I’m just not sure on how to hear them.  As I type this Oprah has come on tv and funnily enough has Louise Hay on as a guest speaking about law of attraction, this is what I mean about signs.  Anyway I could write and write but know I must stop.  I look forward to your reply.

Blessings to you
thank you

Feel So Lost, Am I on the Right Track?

Dear Lost:

I’m happy to hear that you have joined the forum!  I look forward to connecting with you more there. Wondering what the purpose of our life is here is something that everyone ponders. Whether we realize it or not, everything here does weave together exactly the way it is supposed to. When we’re focused intently on something, it can block our path depending upon whether or not we’re attached to the outcome. And when we let go, we find that things start showing up.

When we are very attached to outcomes and insist on doing things our way, rather than in synchronicity with the universe, then we do also block our forward progress.  However, I don’t feel that someone should ever stop learning. Yes, I agree that the tapestry is still in the weaving process for you, yes. The best piece of advice I can give you for now is to learn to accept the things you cannot change, change the things you can, and be willing to let go of any attachment to outcome. Let things develop as they do.

The gift of life happens in every moment whether we realize it or not. If you wait to live your life until amazing things happen, you’ve missed your life. Truly. You can begin to create the life you desire in any given moment. Things change from the inside first, rather than the outside. Figure out how you want your life to show up. Then figure out exactly what needs to change in order to make that happen. Then figure out why or where you are either willing or unwilling to do whatever is entailed in making those changes.

Angel Hugs,

Dyan 

Letter from Heartbroken

Dear Dyan:

I love a man with all my heart and soul.  He has broken up with me to move
to China.  How do I stop loving him?  How do I stop crying about missing him?

Heartbroken

 

Dear Heartbroken:

Bless your heart, I feel your pain. Awwww. Love is the strongest power in the universe. The answer is you don’t stop loving. Ever. Without love, we are nowhere. When we truly love someone, we love unconditionally. And that includes being able to step aside from our own wants, needs, and desires to accept and honor the other person’s journey, wherever that journey may lead them. There is great and profound peace in simple acceptance. So, don’t stop loving him, but transform that love into something higher. That’s the challenge here. Know that his decision to move to China is part of his learning and part of his journey and also part of yours. Everything is always for a reason, even if we do not see or agree with the reason.

We do want the best for those we love.  From an earth plane perspective, when we focus on something other than our heartache and emptiness and begin to reach out a helping hand to others, we then have a platform for healing the pain. When we extend ourselves to others we open the flow for love to return to us. If we’re dictating how we want that love to return, we are telling the universe what to do and thus blocking ourselves in all areas.

Angel Love,

Dyan